My bestie and her partner broke up 3 years ago! They have a child who is 4. When they are fighting there is police and child services involed but then every 3 months or so he plays the father of the year role and she seems to forget all that. When they fight she tells me and her family all the bad stuff he says about US, then when they are talking again she tells us hes changed and expects me to go to her sons b'day party that he was going to be at. I didnt go because I (because of the things she has told me he has said about me and my family) now have isues of my own with him. Then next month she will tell me that he's calling her all the names under the sun??? Everyone is so over it .Should I tell her I dont want to hear about it ir keep offering my support even though i no shell run back every time?
2006-12-03 15:06:29 · 4 answers · asked by blahblahblah 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That is a very good question because i have a friend like that i guess the only difference would be that her child is 2. So N E way one day i just sit down and told her that i would always be there 4 her but that i didn't want to keep hearing that mess if she is going to continue to run back to him she was upset 4 a few days but she got over it and lately she hasn't brought anything up so maybe u can do the same
2006-12-03 18:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by jsxy695 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel, but make sure she knows you will always be there for her...but you just have problems of your own and if shes dumb enough to always run back to him then shes asking for the troubles... tell her just how you feel... explain to her that he treats her like **** and even though she has a baby with him it doesnt mean she cant move on and find a man that will treat her and her son better!she just needs someone to be her back bone!!!...maybe talk to her family about it to. If shes your best friend you will go to extremes to help her out.
2006-12-03 15:33:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
needless to say you haven't any longer have been given infants. Or do you? Do think of they're eye-catching? possibly in the eyes of a few one else they do no longer look to be yet rather grotesque. Your mindset is chilly and calloused. on account which you think of the newborn in question is grotesque. you're extra effectual off to no longer say something in any respect. And be variety sufficient to enable the proud mum and dad rightfully brag on their maximum prized possession.
2016-12-29 20:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You simply tell her, you don't care to hear the baby daddy drama. You are her friend, however, you really don't want to hear it anymore. You can continue to be her friend, however, realize she will probably do this the rest of her life. Or at least until she grows a self esteem and moves on with her life. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-03 15:18:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋