my cousin had underage sex for the first time with someone of 21 when they were 15 i have not told anyone beacuse im scared that they will fall out with me the messenger also this person is a good friend of the family what do i do ?
2006-12-03 14:59:34 · 5 answers · asked by samantha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no it wasn't rape thank u for the advice
2006-12-03 15:03:54 · update #1
let her make her own mistakes. she will learn and she needs to learn how to deal with her own problems and you should just set a good example and maybe someday she will realize what kind of mistakes she is making.
2006-12-03 15:03:09 · answer #1 · answered by Raven S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the only thing you should bring up is contraception. Just make sure that your cousin is protected and not naive about the situation. The person that they had sex with is considerably older and who knows what twist they put on things. I would not worry about telling anyone. Maybe just talk to your cousin about how uncomfortable you feel about it.
2006-12-03 19:48:29 · answer #2 · answered by jipp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sure it is consensual and that there was no "forcing" in the issue, then keep quiet. I don't agree with what they did, but sometimes it is best to keep quiet. If her parents were soooo concerned for her, they would keep a better eye on her.
2006-12-03 15:45:24 · answer #3 · answered by pirulee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u werent involved then leave it alone none one of ur business
2006-12-03 15:22:11 · answer #4 · answered by granny042505 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that unless you think it was rape or any kind of sexual abuse, then i think that you should just let it alone.
2006-12-03 15:01:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋