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Her mom and some of her friends are putting so much stress on her. She never had a father figure in her life and now her mom has a boyfriend. She is constantly under stress, which cannot be good for October (if her baby's a girl thats her name) . Any advice on how to calm my friend down when she starts to fret? THANKS !

2006-12-03 14:37:31 · 8 answers · asked by Jennifer_Yvonne 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

Oh and by the way his parents and her parents know and they have no problem with it.... its just like, well u know sometimes life just piles up and there's just too much stress... we've all been there

2006-12-03 14:51:43 · update #1

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She kinda a young but the best thing is to be there for her. Maybe you two can go for a walks or the movie to keep her mind off her mom and other friends.

2006-12-03 14:41:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well how many months is she? Well I got pregnant when I was 15 going to 16 and it was so hard you have no idea she needs to seek for help because some times things could get really bad she needs to relax go out for walks and that is good she has a friend like you and she also needs to let her doctor know cause stress can cause a lot of bad things like her baby being premature or she can even go in to a depression but try to be as understanding as you can even if she fits to much that is just part of her pregnancy

2006-12-04 05:28:53 · answer #2 · answered by MZMIRANDA 1 · 0 0

Encourage her to go to a crisis pregnancy center. They can be nonjudgement, guide her with medical and most of all to encourage her to place her baby up for adoption. At 14 that is the best way to love her and be there for her. It sure doesn't sound like 14 yr old has a good home life herself. Bringing baby into that environment would repeat not having a father figure. Yes do pray for her

2006-12-03 23:37:11 · answer #3 · answered by redqueen94 2 · 0 0

Just being there for her and not standing in judgement would be a big comfort I would say. Try reassuring her that you don't feel any differently about her because of her situation, unconditional friendships at times like these are worth their weight in gold. Be nice for her to have someone thats not always telling her what to do, or how disappointed they are with her. Gently support her if you can, loyality and empathy go a long way. Best wishes, hope things improve, do what you think is best for you both, what I've written is only my opinion.

2006-12-03 22:56:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

Find a local pregnancy crisis center. They usually can provide free counsleing and will probably (though unfortunately) have experience talking to women in this same situation. Let her know that you love and support her no matter what. In saying this, you really have to be open for her though. Just let her vent, and if you don't know what advice to give her, tell her. At least she knows you care enough to listen. It is important to support our friends in time of need. I am sure she is glad to have you as a friend, because from the sound of it, her other friends have abandoned her in her time of need.

More than anything else, pray for her.

2006-12-03 22:43:17 · answer #5 · answered by moobaby09 2 · 0 0

Just be there for her as much as you can...when everyone else is getting to her, try to get her away and do something fun with her...It's going to be tough to be a mom at 14, but if she has friends like you, she just might pull it off! Good luck!!

2006-12-03 22:41:41 · answer #6 · answered by Renee B 4 · 0 0

Be there for her. She's going to need it.

2006-12-03 23:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by kelxcore09 1 · 0 0

tell her parents, tell her parents, and tell her parents.

2006-12-03 22:43:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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