tell my parents?

Question

me and my bf have sex quite alot atm in my room but the problem is he is scared my aprents will walk in or hear us one day and get mad at him thinking that he took my virginity that he didnt so how can i tell my parents ive been sexually active for 8 months without siting down and talking to them as i dont speak to them much because of my school and work hours and their sleeping patterns

im 17 he 18 we both over legal as it 16 here in the UK

i am using protection as i not stupid and as many have asked the rules when cums to sex is it ok as long as u clean afterwards

Answer 1

I would say they already know, parents are actually a lot smarter than we give them credit for.

perhaps sit down with your mum and speak to her about it, stay calm in case she freaks out because she needs to see that you are adult enough to be having sex, and yelling at her will NOT give her this impression! tell her that you are using protection and wanted to let her know.

it's scary for all parents, but it has to happen eventually, so they will respect the fact that you have taken the time to be honest with them

good luck xx

Answer 2

Oh My God!! You can NEVER let the "aprents" know!!!!
By the way,what is an "aprent"?

Oh,and to answer your question...STOP THAT!!! Having sex in your PARENT'S home is very disrespectful. Not enough people put themselves in the other person's shoes. I hope your daughter does the same crap to you someday.

Answer 3

If you are under 18 then you better make sure your parents consent with you having sex under their roof. If you are an adult then you are old enough to get your own apartment or room and not disrespect yourself and degrade your parents by acting like a two bit floozy.

Answer 4

PLEASE tell me you are on birth control and he is using a condom ????????????? if not PLEASE start now..... and as for your parents !! that is their home and you should respect them enough to NOT be having sex in their house unless they approve, I hope not, but maybe in UK you are out of school already ?? and considered an adult ... but all the same, I feel this situation is just wrong..... *sigh*, but that is just me... you know your parents and rules of house, what do you think about this ?? Do YOU feel it is right ?? do YOU feel you need to tell them ?? your choice and decision .... God bless

Answer 5

how old are you first of all? and what are you doing disrespecting your parents house like that. when i was young i would not dare do that. all you can do is be honest with your parents and find a new spot to the the hanky panky. you really need to work on comunicating with your parents they are all you have in this world.

Answer 6

i always thought that the risk of being caught made sex a little more exciting. if you have a good relationship with your parents, it might not hurt to talk to them and let them know how you feel

Answer 7

1st. of all,there is no such thing as safe sex.CRAP HAPPENS.Is he going to be able to support the child or even stick around?Which leads to the ones that you are keeping the secret from,going to have to raise it themselves or is this when running away and abortion come into play.

Answer 8

write them a letter but if i was a mother i would want my daughter to personally talk with me about it. Be safe

Answer 9

since u guy are so "active" and im sure that ur will wan more on this.. tell ur parents, so that u guyz do not need to hide here n there.

Answer 10

you should tell your parents and make sure you are having smart sex.

use birth controll having kids is hard exspecially when yoiur young