i am 13 and i am pregnant and my mom and dad think i am a virgine and i cant tell them but i am 2 months pregnant and i need to have a miscarage....i dont care what it involves....just please help..
2006-12-03 14:11:26 · 27 answers · asked by bldholbrook 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Go to a doctors office and see if they can do an abortion if neccessary, if you have a miscarriage and end up in the hosptial they are going to find out anyways that something was up if you get a miscarriage more then likely. If you pay to have an abortion then it is confidential. If you live in canada then the abortioin is paid for and is also confidential there are many organizations that will help you if neccessary. I think you are way to young to have a baby, and I dont want to push an abortion but it is safer for you to have that instead of having a purposeful miscarriage.
You had also better get on some birth control....they have the pil or they have a patch or anythign that will prevent this from happening again! Dont be a silly idiot and make this same mistake again, this is a life that is inside you and though I think you are to young to have a baby, you are not young enough to take care of yourself and you body to prevent this from happening agian.
2006-12-03 14:41:09 · answer #1 · answered by jennyve25 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
DO NOT even attempt to have a miscarage! There are so many people that want to have a baby and cant. I was in the same boat and didnt want to tell my parents that I was pregnant, but guess what, sometimes moms just know. My mom asked me if i was pregnant before I told anyone that I was. Suck it up and get some guts and tell them. You need to see a doctor. Yeah they are gonna be a little upset at first, but they will come around. My dad wouldnt talk to me until after I had the baby.
2006-12-03 22:21:27 · answer #2 · answered by theprincessdanie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go see a doctor at a clinic like Planned Parenthood or a County clinic (they'll be free and won't require an adult to go with you). Don't do anything on your own because a miscarriage - even a natural one - can be life threatening. You could have internal bleeding and not even know it. If you truly don't want this baby, then go to Planned Parenthood and find out how you can get an abortion by a licensed doctor under their care. You'll need a friend to come and be with you afterwards and hopefully you have more than one. If this is a serious inquiry and not just some prank, I really do hope you are safe and don't get hurt. You must be terrified - but you MUST go to a doctor!
2006-12-04 00:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by prausefrau 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, if you had sex, you should have known about the outcomes, and what would happen...If your mom and dad know that you are pregnant, they will help you get through this, and you cannot make yourself have a miscarriage, because it may hurt you know, and affect you so bad, you may not be able to have children in the future.
The baby is well procected in the womb and i think it would be very cruel to make youself have a miscarriage, kids are a gift from heaven, and it is not right for the unborn child.
But yes, tell your mom and dad, they need to know, because when your belly gets bigger and you don't have your period, they are going to find out sometime.
2006-12-03 23:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by Kirbs 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You CAN NOT MAKE urself have a miscarriage. That baby is well protected in the womb. You just need to be honest with ur parents. If u would have thought about the outcome of havin sex BEOFRE u did it, u would not be in this situation. Ur parents will not act the way u think. Honesty is the best policy, if u want ur parents to EVER trust u again, u need to tell them. You are only 13 and have so much life ahead of u still.
2006-12-03 22:19:03 · answer #5 · answered by lablover82 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to take a deep breath, tell your mum or dad, or even a friend or teacher and then contact www.fpa.net.au/
Family Planning will help you.
Then once you have this all sorted out, if you think you're old enough to be sexually active, you must be old enough to take responsibility of your actions by choosing birth control.
Meantime, don't do anything stupid. It's really not the end of the world as you fill out as you grow older. Just go and talk to somoeone you trust.
2006-12-03 23:01:01 · answer #6 · answered by Mary F 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am a father of a 11 year old.I don't know your parents ,but I can tell you I would want my little girl to talk to me.I believe that a unborn child is a living soul.your baby does have the right to live.I am sorry if being a mom dosen't fit in your plans.You should consider adoption.please do not hurt your baby or yourself.God loves us all and he has a plan that people can not understand.we all will stand before our maker one day and give a account of our actions thru life.How can you try to explain to god that you took the life of a baby.I am not trying to make you feel bad nor am I condeming you.If my daughter ever becomes pregnant I will raise her child untill she is ready.I hope you can find someone to help you thru this other than strangers on the net.Parents have a love for their children that is stronger than you probably believe.Give yours a chance to help.
2006-12-03 22:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by upforitupforitupforitupforitru 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to your parents. Your parents love you they are not going to dis own you or do anything bad to you. You will be suprised with how they deal with it - young girls dont give their parents enough credit when it comes to situation like this. If you do anything to yourself to harm your baby you are more than likely to harm yourself in the process - You could do imediate damage or long term damage. Just think in 10-15 years time when you are married and want t have children then- But a little secret from your past comes back to haunt you and you are never able to conceive another child. There are plenty of other options for you. Talk to your parent and they will be able to help you through this. Dont do anything stupid you will regret it.
2006-12-05 07:16:50 · answer #8 · answered by claire 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents. If you try to miscarry yourself you could end up never being able to have a baby again. Even with a miscarriage you have to see a doctor so they can make sure everything comes out. My step mother in law had a miscarriage at 19 and they did it wrong and she never had any kids. She couldn't. Don't be silly. You have made an adult decision now act like an adult and tell your parents. I had to. Good luck sweetie and you can email me if you want. mle32005@yahoo.com
2006-12-03 22:16:14 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. Always Right 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are you having sex at 13?! I am having trouble to even get pregnant and you want to cause yourself to have a miscarriage. You need help. Tell your mom and dad the the baby's daddy' needs to be in jail!
2006-12-03 23:29:43 · answer #10 · answered by UTGirl34 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋