A BIT! he says, I guess I can see it now that he points it out so much....are all girls complainers? How can I stop complaining so much? Or maybe I am complaining because I haven't had sex more than twice in months ......we are in our early 20's
I know he isn't cheating on me...I know I can trust him. He says he has trouble getting aroused...what fricken guy has that problem?
2006-12-03 14:03:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
He needs to go to a doctor because at his age it is probably something more serious than your nagging that is causing him to have erectile disfunction. Also that is why he finds fault with you, his problem bothers him so much that he has to find fault with you, it has to be someone's fault. As a nurse I can tell you that his trouble is not normal at his age.
2006-12-03 14:59:02 · answer #1 · answered by silverboy470 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The complaining thing is just a perspective issue. The best way for you to stop complaining is to really appreciate just how bad things could be. Volunteer to help the homeless or read an article on Darfur you will see that you really have very little right to complain.
More guys have that problem than you might think. The reason is either physiological or psychological. If it is a body problem then doctors can fix that, but the mental block thing is just something that guys have to get over. One of the most stressful things for a man during sex is worrying about maintaining an erection. That stress can cause a constricting of blood vessels and guess what that causes.
2006-12-03 14:16:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just your boyfriend. You do not turn him on anymore - that's why he stays limp. Stop complaining - you're draining his noodle!
2006-12-03 14:23:25 · answer #3 · answered by mchicha777 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋