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SHOULD I TELL HIM TO BACK OFF

2006-12-03 12:41:22 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

Wow I didn't know there were that many sex o holics. He gets it three times a week but i should have mentioned that he has a full time job I am a full time student and we have two kids under the age of three.

2006-12-03 12:56:27 · update #1

33 answers

Having sex too often can seriously damage a relationship.
Let's face it- sex is about quality and not about quantity.

Remember- a man who get whatever he wants in your bedroom will soon expect everything he wants outside your bedroom.

The best plan of action here is to deliberately torture him by not giving in to his demands. Rather than giving him booty 3 times a week every week, make him work for it. He may pout and beg, but ignore him. You wouldn't have sex with a guy you were dating if he behaved like a child- so why make exceptions for him just because he's your husband? In a few days, he'll wise up and start acting like a sweetheart. Don't let up the minute he acts right- enjoy his change in attitude for a week or so. And when you decide to have sex with him, it will be AWESOME. Seriously, you'll start thinking that you have a huge sex drive...

But afterwards, don't revert back to your 3 times a week deal.
(Because if you're counting how many times you have sex a week, then you're having too much sex and not having good sex!)

You deserve to be treated like the woman he wanted to be his companion for the rest of his life and not like his sex slave. ^_^

p.s.) and if you feel pressured to give into his demands because you think that he might stray, then you need to get a divorce because if that's the case, he'd probably do it no matter if you gave him more sex or not.

2006-12-03 13:09:23 · answer #1 · answered by miss advice 4 · 2 2

You should have known this before you married him...........is it something new with him?
If you do not, he may well get it from somewhere else.
It does not sound like you all are compatible.
Men are different. Ex-husband thought once a week was more than enough. My ex boyfriend thought all night long was the right thing. Sometimes I got tired but my love for him made it ok, and enjoyable. Our break-up was not sex related.
Your situation is not a good one. It is sex and money that break up marriages.
If you truly love him and want to save the marriage, adapt,

2006-12-03 12:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

You have no idea how lucky you are... if you "love" your husband and want to be with him... then what is the hardship ? I would love to have a husband who wanted me at all... I was lucky if I got his attention once a month. When you are older, you will look back and wish you were more willing and less whining... I was married to a man like your husband for 20 years... he was very active sexually, and sometimes I didn't get to sleep through the night... but he died about 8 years ago and I miss him so darn much! Go put your babies to bed and then go surprise your sweetheart! LUCKY GIRL!

2006-12-03 14:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by MaggieO 4 · 0 0

I'm a 12 year old girl and I even say 3x isn't enough for me. Yes I said for ME. But I understand where you're coming from. You both have two little ones and you both have hard working jobs. He's thinking with his dic.k and he won't stop. Plan a couple days of the week to have sex. It may be more than three but you will feel comfortable about it once you discuss to him about it. Tell him baby I would love to have sex with you 3x a week but we have two children and we have jobs. I just can't have sex with a random pick of which day of the week because I have to work and study for work. When we get this figured out, I will have sex with you maybe more than 3x a week but that's only until I feel comfortable with it.

2006-12-03 13:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 3

Why would you want him to back off, at least you know he wants you. Your a lucky woman, so dont make him go seek it somewhere else. Besides; it's better for your health at least once a day. Not to mention that it decreases your stress level.

2006-12-03 12:49:15 · answer #5 · answered by JodiBaby 3 · 2 0

Girl give him what he wants or someone else will. Why would you want to tell him to back off? Isn't that your husband? Obviously he enjoys intercouse A LOT...I don't want to advise you not to satisfy your husband, cause like I said if you don't give it to him another woman will

2006-12-03 12:50:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

3 times a week is probably on the low side of average. you might wanna check up on other aspects of your marriage. there are other things that you can do besides have sex and there are definately things he can handle by himself if the need arises.

2006-12-03 12:46:27 · answer #7 · answered by bobndew 3 · 2 0

You can either sit down and have a talk with him and explain that maybe your sex drive isn't as strong as his and maybe the two of you can come to a compromise.

Or you can always find him a girlfriend for when you aren't in the mood.

2006-12-03 12:44:56 · answer #8 · answered by trollwzrd 3 · 0 2

Are you serious? If you want to keep him, you better keep up and even throw in some extra. You knew he was that way before you got married right? Oh and 3x a week is nothing 3x daily is a little better.

2006-12-03 12:47:21 · answer #9 · answered by SOLO KING 4 · 1 1

That is a high sex drive.. maybe he has a sex addiction? Well you could tell him to chill since your not feeling it.. Or he could help you, to make you feel as randy as he is. Women are ovens men and microwaves.

2006-12-03 13:09:39 · answer #10 · answered by bulldogsr2cute 3 · 2 0

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