how can i boost my cofidence?

Question

im not the most confident person, so what are some ways i can boost my confidence?

i dont have very much money and i dont want plastic surgery!!

Answer 1

I used to have the same problem. The first thing I can tell you NOT to do is compare yourself to other people. I used to look at other girls and think of how pretty I thought they were and all that. I realized though that what one person thinks is pretty varies from another, sometimes drastically. Don't measure how pretty, kind, cool, etc. you are by how you feel others are. Set standards for yourself and yourself only. It's amazing what a boost in confidence and a change in how you carry yourself will do for how others see you as well.

Answer 2

remember, inner beauty always outshines outer beauty....
when u don't feel confident... well, think of the people who have less than you; think about the disabled people in the world, who don't even have what you are upset about now.
who are you to hate yourself when some others will never be fortunate enough to have what you have?
when you go outside, don't envy other people for their appearance. You should wonder what they would envy in YOU.
there is no such thing as a perfect person; everyone has flaws, even the prettiest people.
this is one problem with peope. they always focus on the negative aspects of their appearance and immediately think they're the ugliest person in the world. it's like we're trying to make ourselves miserable.
appreciate what you have, because some people will never have what you have right now.

just be yourself and let your inner beauty shine through.

and remember... there is no real definition of 'pretty'. different people see 'pretty' in different ways. so how can you define yourself as 'not pretty' if there is no definition for 'pretty' in the first place? sorry, may get confusing, but its true.

hope this helps!

Answer 3

you dont need to go under the knife to feel good about yourself. If your not confident because youre unhappy with your looks, try treating yourself to a few new chic outfits. go to the mall and buy some clothes that make you feel good when youre in them. Then go to a makeup counter and get yourself made over. they will teach you how to do it yourself there too. and once youre all glamed up, go out and flaunt it. Believe youre sexy on the inside and it will radiate to the outside.

Answer 4

You have to start to LOVE yourself. When you love who you are and yourself confidence will shine through. Know that you are important and you have people who love you. Give yourself a make over......once you have a cute hair cut and some new clothes...to reflect the inner you'll start to feel more beautiful....trust me that's all you need. I have some friends who aren't naturally beautiful, but.. with the right clothes, hair cut and makeup they look it...hope this helps!!!

Answer 5

PLASTIC SURGERY! it helps a lot for some women. if it's your body you don't like maybe it would help. only do it for yourself and no one else though.