I have been with my girlfriend for almos two months already and we are deeply in love with each other; we see each other EVERY SINGLE DAY since the first day we met, but even though I do not know why I suffer so much for her. I have not seen her today and I am almos suicidal, depressing, I can not stand it anymore...why am I like this? I know this is the piscean nature, but why are we like this? Why do we always, always have to feel this way when we are in love? Why do I feel I can not be without my girlfriend for a single day? It sounds crazy, but it is like this, piscean always feel so much staff inside us that it kills us! and moreover we pretend that the other party feels the same and I my brain understand that not everybody is like this, but my heart can not. It can not understand that my girlfriend can spend one day without me with not harm. Please, I need serious advice from piscean people because they are the only ones that can undestand me. Piscean people know my suffering....
2006-12-03 12:20:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
Oh hon, I know how you feel.
We feel things a lot deeper, we are highly emotional and very emphatic. It is hard for others to understand how we feel things, how intense it is, how everything is "personal" to us. Other people cannot be non chalant or casual with us, because we see what is not obvious, we feel it. And we are so sympathetic to the needs and emotions of others, that thinking of others literally consumes our life.
How to change it, I don't know. It's just the way we are. We have to learn to live with it, as heart-breaking as it may be.
2006-12-03 12:37:53 · answer #1 · answered by deb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you should definitely know that you're not alone in your feelings of not wanting to be away from your lady love. A person of any sign can feel that way but being a fellow Pisces I can certainly relate to the fact that we are the most sensitive sign of the zodiac. It's almost like being at the end of the list of zodiac signs means that we get to deal with the build up of all the other signs and take everything in. I wish the best for you though! Keep your chin up and take a deep breath. Hopefully your girlfriend is very understanding and in time once you've been together for a while longer if things are meant to be you will have developed a much deeper level of trust and security that will enable you to have some time apart. Your piscean depth is just acting in overdrive right now.
2006-12-03 21:27:31 · answer #2 · answered by Rosetinted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we pretend that the other party feels the same and I my brain understand that not everybody is like this, but my heart can not.
I COULD NEVER SAY THOSE WORDS & ACTUALLY HAVE ANOTHER PERSON UNDERSTAND .....I wish everyone could feel this way just once to show everyone that I am not crazy!Unfortunately that never ever ever going to happen & I know now that no matter how much I know that somebody loves me that they will never love me as much as I love them.It's no ones fault it is just the way it is & always will be.I don't think I have ever met anyone who loves UNCONDITIONALLY as I do..............No matter what nothing is so bad our love can't make it.I can take alot of things I mean ALOT simply because I love my boyfriend.I am happy knowing that he's happy & am so busy making sure he's happy I don't have time to think about the other things that make me happy so in my mind I'm convinced that I am happy,but I am really good at keeping things inside.In my heart I am happy & loved, but in my mind I know that all I know how to do is make him happy & make sure he knows how much he is loved in the end no two people are in love with each other the same at the same time ...someone will always love someone more than the other & this is where being a PISCES will get you everytime ....LOVING someone so much more than ever will have been loved themselves a sacrifice I make every single day without thinking about I just do it ,It is who I am PISCES
2006-12-06 06:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by pisces_kidd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! I am also a Pisces and I feel exactly the same way. I feel like I cannot live without my husband. I can't believe that there are other people like me. Now, I don't have to feel like I am the only one. All I do is think and think about things that I shouldn't be thinking about. And the stuff I am thinking about just makes me all depressed. I am so afraid of losing him and being by myself. Sometimes, I just want him to feel the same way that I do. I would love to give you some advice, but I need some too. The one thing that does make me feel better is when I keep myself busy. You and I are the same. But, we can't be too needy or else we will push away the people we love. We have to stop thinking soooo much and get our minds on stuff like school or work. If you ever want to talk, please e-mail me because I would love to talk to someone who knows exactly how I feel.
2006-12-04 01:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by Damon ♥ Elena 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, Piscean people need to be needed. Generally they are ruled by and live on emotion rather than logic and have a hard time understanding how people can appear so cold and emotionaly detached just because they can listen and follow their brains rather than their heart. I'm sure that your partner loves you but you should not measure this love or your worth by how much they "need" to be around you. Remember this, having a loving partner should enrich your life - not be your life!
2006-12-03 22:41:15 · answer #5 · answered by The Charmed One 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm a Scorpio and we have very deep emotions too. Also, My moon sign (emotions) is Pisces. I can understand where you're coming from. I wanted to be with my ex-fiancee' every moment of the day. I could've spent my whole life talking to her, being with her, and just loving her. Unfortunately, for me it didn't work out. All I can suggest is find the right person to reflect your feelings. You want someone who has deep emotions and also wants to spend all their time with you, but with enough strength to face reality and keep you two from drowning each other. If you have that person then you are very lucky. All I can suggest is to stay distracted. Get yourself a good hobby. Maybe you can write out how you're feeling. Just be strong and stick out those moments when you're apart from your loved one. Trust me, it doesn't mean they don't love you at all. They just have other things that need to be done. I know that might feel cruel to you having such sensitivity. Just have faith in your love and stay strong. And remember that everyone is different and they might not have the same depth and sensitivity as you. That doesn't change how much they love you though. Don't worry, I know it's tough but try and relax. They miss you too, you're just a little more sensitive is all.
2006-12-03 20:38:48 · answer #6 · answered by miketheirishwolf 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm Piscean too but I don't really feel what you felt! We were told that we have the characteristics of the other 11 stars which somehow make us.... complicated. Maybe yours contain too much of "being needed" that result in your "suffering" now.
All I know is, we piscean most of the time been controlled by our emotion where by the surrounding environment contribute to our emotion. So....... control your mood and don't let emotion takes place. For me, I do Yoga.....
2006-12-04 01:41:47 · answer #7 · answered by Fish Master 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwhh,..... . Really, maybe you two are meant for each other. Pisceans and other zodiac signs are special. You know why you suffer? Because pisceans love deeply, very deep. I know a piscean girl who cried straight 3 hours because of her boyfriend. Really, I feel your pain.
2006-12-04 00:04:44 · answer #8 · answered by jaydee03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel what you feel. You soak up so many emotions that sometimes its overwhelming. When i was younger, i used to feel that way about someone i loved... she had the most majestic eyes. I simply loved her, from the first glance.
Thing is... as much as you really want to reject my idea about it, its probably the case.
You simply do not trust her. She is doing something insignificant, but to you its something.. and you preceive it even if you dont consciously know your actually understanding it.
Now, dont get me wrong, you could very well trust her... but do you honestly believe she loves you to the degree that you could and do love her? you know the answer to all your questions, and the pain in your mind is really because its the battleground for all your mixed emotions. Either find something positive in the situation or continue your swim to the bottom. Decide whatever you are contemplating, keep to that side, go with your gut, its probably correct.
Think...She is coming back, she is yours.. Dont spill your emotions out to her... frankly you sound alittle nutty. :)
And yeah.. ive done it, and she was like "somethings seriously wrong with you" and my reply.. was "no, you just dont care"
ends up.........we break up, and shes dating my once good friend........ but ive been their, and i can relate... just relax.. find something positive to do.. like... working out? ... i mean, comeon, working out is good for all ages... if your dating.. i think keeping yourself fit would be a great plus.. dedicate it to her..in your mind... although, dont assume she would notice.
And dont assume the worse in your lovely lady, think positively about her.
I know its who we are but stop asking why about yourself, you know why, deal with the why... You are that way its settled, now what you gonna do man.. let it kill ya? or step to it and make things happen?
2006-12-04 01:10:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! I m Aries but i feel this way right now!! I don't understand hw my Capricorn man can live life daily w/o seeing me! My heart is hurting so bad as i count the hours til i can c him again...
I THOUGHT I WZ THE ONLY ONE...Anyway back 2 u..
I hv read that Pisces r just like the fish that represent them...always chasing never quite catching the object of their affections...sorta they r right under the surface of the water w/ their big bulging eyes...looking out at the world..unable to express their feelings...it is your nature, impossible to fight it or change it.
~all the best
2006-12-03 20:27:40 · answer #10 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋