my friend had a sleepover party. she invited a couple of friends. they included some girls and guys. do you think this okay? i personally think it is not. i mean what could they be doing? this is why. do you think it REALLY is okay?
2006-12-03 12:18:12 · 30 answers · asked by (Beautiful Disaster) 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i didn't go. i thought it was stupid and i wasn't allowed. and, plus her little sis was there who is ten!
2006-12-03 12:37:47 · update #1
NO! Don't do it! 13 is when all their little hormones start kicking in. They are become little sexual creatures who are curious about the changes in their bodies. Co ed sleep overs should have ended years ago.
2006-12-03 12:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by BAnne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
at my gym (for gymnastics) we have sleepovers for the whole team which is girls AND guys, but there are a BUNCH of rules like the girls and boys that are teenagers (which i am included in) can't have their "forts" next to each other, they have to be on the exact opposite side of the gym (which is really big). The only time the "teens" are allowed out of the sight of an adult are when they are going to a bathroom(and someone supervises the bathroom door so there is only 1 person in there at a time). AND we (the teenage girls) arent allowed in the teenage boys forts because they think we will like have sex or something. So we all decided that the pit(which is a big huge hole in the ground filled with foam) was "neutral" territory and we decided to all sit in there and talk and whatever. But apparently one of the coaches kissed their first girl in a "pit" so it wasnt ok with him that we were all in the pit together. It spoils a lot of fun we could be having (not naughty things but everything we do is apparently NO OK whith the coaches) but hey at least we have sleepovers. it sucks though cause the girls/boys who are not teenagers can basically do whatever they want. But i think it would be ok if the parents were supervising
2006-12-03 14:23:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on heaps of different things. For example: Are they mature enough? Are they close friends with the boys there? Could the girls trust the boys enough to not make a move on them, and would it be the same the other way around? I'm 14 and yes, my dad lets me go to boy/girl sleepover parties, yes he allows me to host boy/girl sleepover parties, and yes, he allows me to sleep in the same room, not separate rooms, because I'm mature enough and he trusts me. So based upon those things, I think it's fine. If your friend is "doing stuff" with boys at a sleepover party, that just proves how immature she's being. It's also up to her parents and their rules and choices. What you or your parents believe could be very different to what your friend's family enforces.
2006-12-03 14:42:25 · answer #3 · answered by Astrid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think that's okay. I would not have a problem with the boys coming to hang out and then leaving at like 9 or 10pm, but boys would not be sleeping over at my daughter's party. For me that would be too much liability, especially if I'm watching other people's children.
2006-12-03 12:23:41 · answer #4 · answered by tangyterp83 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I was invited to parties like that as a teenager and wasn't allowed to go. I wouldn't send my kids to a coed sleepover even if they were 17. It's just a bad idea.
2006-12-03 12:26:04 · answer #5 · answered by Steph 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the set of 13 yr olds. I think its okay as long as they dont DO anything- I know my friends wouldn't do anything but talk or maybe games like truth or dare, but some other people in my grade would be making out (and more). However, many parents wouldnt let their kids go to a co-ed sleepover, so chances are it wont work out.
2006-12-03 12:26:04 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
No I do not think this is appropriate. Kids age way to fast no need to try and help them speed it up. I think you are a very wise 13 year old to think this was not a good idea and shows that you are indeed a smart and well brought up 13 year old! Your parents must be doing a good job!!
2006-12-03 12:23:39 · answer #7 · answered by Issym 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-29 20:45:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think at someone's house it's too hard to pull off...as in too much temptation, too hard to monitor, inappropriate.
The way someone here described an event taking place at a gym with lots of supervision and rules, that might be different.
In general, I am NOT in favor of this for teenagers of any age.
2006-12-03 14:34:25 · answer #9 · answered by Shars 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are in 2 different rooms with the parents chaperoning, I mean the dad sleeps in the room or outside the room with the boys and the mom does the same with the girls, I don't see why not.
2006-12-03 12:20:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋