2006-12-03 12:17:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Who is anyone that they believe they can judge the emotions of another?
2006-12-03 13:03:45 · answer #1 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In most relationships, whether gay or straight, the first part of a relationship is all about lust. The other person makes your juices flow, and that is all you care about. You do stupid things, are unable to think straight, or think much about anything except the object of your lust. We call that love, but it is primarily lust. Later, when the lust diminishes, we have to decide if the realtionship can be turned into love. Love is deeper than lust, hopefully the lust part remains, but there are many other factors that must come together to result in lasting love. This has nothing to do with gay, bi-sex or straight, it is the same for us all.
2006-12-03 13:02:20 · answer #2 · answered by irongrama 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be either, depending on the couple and how close they are or how long they have been together. In general though, a gay fellow is far more likely to bring affection into the relationship with a bi fellow or another gay one.
Male bisexuality tends to have less of a romantic aspect to it than homosexuality. That doesn't mean that bisexual guys are attempting to take advantage of the situation with another non-straight fellow, but their primary (and initial) reasons for getting involved are basically sexual. Some bi men flat out refuse to show signs of affection during love making (no kissing, cuddling, etc.). Male bisexuality tends to be highly physical, homoerotic, and its aim is primarily sexual release with another male.
I would not call bisexuality in males "lust." But I would not call it love or even friendship either. Lots of times it's just two guys getting together to enjoy the sexual company of another man in private -- in a situation mutually agreeable to the parties involved.
2006-12-03 19:01:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is an emotion. You care extremely about the person. You would be happy even if you didn't have physical things in your relationship. The focus on a physical aspect is lust. Devotion, consideration, and loyalty are love. Love is hard to define. Lust can be slutty.
2006-12-03 12:50:50 · answer #4 · answered by toxicPoison 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be either. My partner Jonathan and I have been together 15 years on the 2nd of January. We love each other very much. He is bisexual, I am gay. He does love me. Lust is secondary - but certainly very much there, otherwise sex wouldn't be good - and it is.
Kind thoughts,
Reyn
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2006-12-03 12:19:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think it has to be one or the other? It could be both and be true love, just as in a hetero relationship.
2006-12-03 13:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by Myst 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most likely, it's LOVE.
2006-12-03 12:27:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
could be either.
2006-12-03 12:19:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋