I AM ALWAYS HAVING TROUBLE WHEN I DANCE WITH A GIRL IN A PARTY.. THE GIRLS DON WANT TO BE TOUCHED THEIR ****, HIPS , BOOTY, EVEN THEIR ABS .... SO WHERE SHOLD I LAY MY HAND ON? WHICH KIND OF TOUCH IS SEXY FOR THEM?
2006-12-03 12:04:51 · 15 answers · asked by DREW 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
I prefer lower back above the butt because it still intimate without being sleazy. Girls like to feel like they are cherished and not just there to have Mr Octopus hands all over them. Let them lead the hand to wear they feel comfortable.
2006-12-03 12:09:44 · answer #1 · answered by Katie G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dancing is a tease in itself. Whay makes it challenging is that the more you don't touch any part of the body, the more it gets intense, sensual.
You don't need to tease with your hands, you can have that after the date (if she'd be comfortable).
What you can work on would be your moves, your rhythm in tune with her body movement - it can get sexual.
A great dancer could be a complete turn on ... or turn off.
So, don't be too conscious on your moves. Just imagine how you move and feel when you're hitting on a girl. Then apply that to music. Sooner or later, you'll get the hang of it.
2006-12-04 11:07:21 · answer #2 · answered by spygirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what kind of party that is and what dance music is being put on. If you go to a salsa party, you will be touching most of anywhere, except for bo*bs, and below the hips. If you go to a hip pop/ techno/ reggae party, then it depends on how people are feeling.
2006-12-06 23:57:18 · answer #3 · answered by tienyutai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
which kind of touch is sexy for them? this all depends, all women are different and have insecurities. hips are usually pretty safe and if she pulls away then dont touch her at all. dont EVER touch her breasts or stomach as these are the areas she is probably insecure about. if she wants you to thouch her there she will guide your hands there. if you are going to touch her anywhere make sure you are looking into her eyes and not at her breasts or ***! if your unsure, put her hands on you, but not in your groin.
2006-12-05 00:42:51 · answer #4 · answered by *juicyjellybean* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well real older women would tell you hands on the waist but keep your left foot outside of her right leg and your right foot between her 2 feet, and hold her close , that is more attractive to them than being fondled
2006-12-04 00:06:57 · answer #5 · answered by jemyhaffa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girls don't want to be touched on their hips, botty, or abs, then respect their wishes.
Why not dance the old fashion way? Put your hand on her waist!
2006-12-03 21:47:55 · answer #6 · answered by Tenn Gal 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What kind of dancing is this? Clubby stuff? Slow dancing? What?
Why is no one saying that the guy should put his hand on her shoulder blade? That's the correct answer when you are in a close closed position embrace.
2006-12-04 20:28:22 · answer #7 · answered by SmartAlex 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, if I want to come across as a sleazy ho. NO! The waist or shoulder is kool if you have to touch.
2006-12-04 07:58:17 · answer #8 · answered by sherijgriggs 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The small of the back...very sexy.
2006-12-03 20:08:22 · answer #9 · answered by Gabby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would say on the lower back cuz is sexy, and they won't say anything, but don't lower your hand too much cuz they won't feel comfortable!!! :P
2006-12-03 20:26:33 · answer #10 · answered by . 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋