Do you agree or disagree with interracial relationships? Or is it certain races you feel shouldn't mix?

Question

Why do white women approach me more than black women and im black?

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Answer 1

I agree w/ interracial relationships. I only date white guys so I couldn't tell you why black women don't approach you, I wouldn't either for obvious reasons. Oh and that thug thing you have going on is not attractive.

Oh and to Teremy K: Once you go white you know you been F*&cked right.

Answer 2

I agree with interracial relationships. I am a white female and have dated interracially, but for the most part I have dated white guys mostly because that's who has asked me out.

I can't think of two races of human beings that should *not* mix, at least in a dating scene. It might be deifficult logistically for a Fijian to actually marry an eskimo given the different aclimatization they've experienced.

Hmmm, why do white women approach you more than black women? I assume you've ruled out all the simple answers, like you work in an office full of white women.
Is there a chance you give off different vibes around white women? Maybe you do not really want to date white women, and the aloofness is a turn-on?

Answer 3

I'm all for inter-racial relationships. Do what makes u happy. U can be in a disfunctional relationship with someone of ur own race too. I don't believe certain people shouldn't mix, but that's due to personality clashes. Yes, I do understand some reasoning behind why races shouldn't mix, because it's hard. U bring in different cultures and backgrounds then. But it can work...u just need to be willing to work at it...just like any other relationship. Do u want black women to hit on u? Do u not like that white women are attracted to u? I don't know the rules of attraction, but someoe once told me to just be happy I'm getting hit on, and I guess that's the only advice i can impart to u. Love is color blind, and it really shows how well u can work if u can work it out with a person different that urself. We need to change to grow; and with bigoted ideologies, growth won't happen. If a person has veiws about separatiang races...that's cool, but it would be wise to keep it to themselves.

Answer 4

I believe that races should mix. This is because people that are of mixed race no matter what the ethnicity Asian/Hispanic, White/Black, Hispanic/Black, Asian/White, etc. are usually more beautiful than a person that is not mixed (my opinion). Is it any coincidence that, besides the US, Puerto Rico has had more Miss Universe winners than any other country. They are a multicultural melting pot. Look at Brazil, the people are also very multicultural. It has been said that there are no ugly people in Brazil. Look at the US, why are American whites considered more attractive than British whites? Race mixing plain and simple. (How many American whites do you know that don't have Native American or some other blood in the family line? Irish/Spanish, German/Italian, Irish/German, Native American/Dutch etc.)
As far as why white women are attracted to you. If could be personality. White men are usually attracted to me more than other races. I think it is a combination of looks and personality and also the fact that there are more white people where I live than Black.

Answer 5

Wow...physical appearance has nothing to do with love. Granted, attraction plays a key factor in the beginning, but after you grow to love the person on the inside, that particular person becomes beautiful on the inside AND the outside.

No, I don't think that any two certain races shouldn't mix. My husband is biracial...so, therefore, so is my daughter. I wouldn't change a thing. They are both the most beautiful people I've ever seen...inside and out.

If you are attractive, anybody of any race will find you attractive as well. For me, it's pretty equal...I'd say that the same number of white, latin, and black men have approached me. We're all human...not another species like some people would like to think. All people in the world are 99.9% alike. (Saw that on Oprah.)

Races...old news.

Answer 6

My husband and I are inter-racial. He's Japanese and I'm a white American. There are no "races," that can't mix. We're all humans on the earth. "Race," is a human invention. People just look different because of the geographic locations where their ancestors lived.

Maybe white women like you more than black women because you have light skin and you have kind of a baby face look about you with light eyes and a thin nose, so you kind of look like you might have a mixed race ancestry.

Oh hell. I don't know why they like you! Does it really matter? If you want a black woman instead, go out and find yourself one!

Answer 7

Black women might be reading something into you when they see you. I checked out your pics, you're a good looking man. The clothing might put me off a little, but I never make a final decision based on clothing and looks.

Who am I to agree or disagree with someone else's love?
That's what it comes down to for me.

If you like the white woman that approaches you, you should see if she is the "one" for you, because life is too short.

Now I'm going to give the exceptions to all of the above interracial stuff with two disclaimers: (1)It's still none of my business. (2)There is no such thing as race, scientifically. Now I present to you the most annoying interracial daters.

The Social Climber Interracial Dater
I don't support the interracial dating where one thinks by dating the other they will somehow raise their self to a higher rung on the ladder, because this is using another person.

The Gold Digger Interracial Dater
These buggers will date outside their race to get money, instead of just getting a damn job. (See black flight attendant that dated Bill Maher)

The Self-Hating Interracial Dater
I don't support the interracial dating where one dates another race because they hate their own. Those self-hating interracial daters are the pathetic, because no one can truly love them back, they can feel sorry for them, but love them, no way.

The Racist-Sexist Interracial Dater
Then we come to the evil racist-sexist interracial dater, this person dates other race because they think the other race is submissive and easy, especially in bed. This is bad, too, because it is using another person as a tool. (See Wesley Snipes and all those sites for white dudes that are fixated on black women arses)

You get combos like the black dude that had a black wife and black children and left them for a white wife and her white kids. He never goes with a black woman that has kids that are not from him, but he gets that white woman and her three kids from a white man and treats them like gold. He totally forgets his first set. He is the most repulsive of all the annoying interracial daters because he is a combo of Sexist-Racist, Self-Hating and Social Climbing Interracial Daters. (See OJ Simpson)

That being said, To each his own.

Answer 8

It is a very interesting question that I have wondered too. I am a white girl and I find black men sexy...but no sexier than any other race......I think sometimes people do it for shock value or because they think black men will treat them differently than say, white men? Hmmmm....I can't wait for the answers!!

Answer 9

I think its because white women are more attracted to you. It could be because of your you know what. I won't go any further, but I used to know a white girl that would always talk about that and the reasons she likes black men. I am just being honest but who knows? It could be because your white washed and act more white than black. But I don't know you. If you want to attract more black women just be yourself and don't be afraid. I was told I am white washed myself but I am asian and attract more white guys than asian ones. Good luck

Answer 10

I'm all for all the interracial relationships that anybody wants.

In today's multicultural society, there's no reason at all to look down on somebody that looks past skin color to find love or companionship.