If your spouse and you are seperated due to work related issues for 18 months and you communicated everyday do you think this gives either partner the opportunity to explore other relationships
2006-12-03 11:48:49 · 20 answers · asked by aggadan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, if you're married and wanting to explore relationships, that would be cheating.
2006-12-03 12:00:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that if a couple decide to separate AND there is an agreement on the table that they desire to 'work out the issues' with or without outside professional help (it's always good to consider professional help because you have goals in place and you have accountability). If the couple make this desicion, then it should also be decided whether this separation includes right to fidelity expectations. If it were me - separation still means MARRIED and married means VOWS and COMMITMENTS and PROMISE TO BE TRUE. So, even with the separation, I don't think any parties should 'explore' other anythings. How can you explore another road not traveled when you say you are improving on the map on the road you already know. AND what kind of communication is going on. Just a phone call to say 'hi' everyday is not communicating. It has to have some merit and focus. Being separated and getting involved with someone else only adds more crazy to the relationship. Now you're putting some other woman or man in the mix and I know from experience that can be explosive and EVERYBODY can get hurt. You should have some time table also on the issue resolution. You can't be separted and expect to heal the marriage. You have to be in there fighting. If you love your mate, no work issue should be the problem. Change hours. Do what you have to in order to keep the marriage whole and healed.
2006-12-03 12:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicate everyday for 18 months and you are asking us this questions?
Do not explore other opportunities without discussing it with your partner first. You are still married according to your question (spouse) and you need to respect that until you both decide differently.
Best of luck.
2006-12-03 11:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-30 02:41:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont but i'm not sure that being seperated is the correct time to start dating others... I think that you should be thinking about your relationship and figure out what you want and what your mistakes were and how you can improve yourself in order to make your next relationship better
2006-12-03 11:52:13 · answer #5 · answered by freze50 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone not locked in a dungeon has the opportunity to explore other relationships.
You might want to make your question a little clearer, if you want a response that's of any value.
2006-12-03 11:59:33 · answer #6 · answered by Leo F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are married, this is crazy. I suggest a divorce, as your relationships by even mentioning suggests it is in the rocks already. If you were just seeing each other before, then, sure. But then, you wont want to hold on. You know you dont love each other that much as there are lots of wild oats to be sowed.
2006-12-03 11:55:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
this sounds like a military relationship. To be a military spouse you have t odo alot of self sacrificing. Mostly phisically. I dont think cheating is right, but it is hard to be faithful
2006-12-03 12:02:43 · answer #8 · answered by abbienikol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definitely presents the opportunity. Does it mean they will do it? It all depends on the person and the relationship.
2006-12-03 11:51:35 · answer #9 · answered by Faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if u have to ask this question then u are looking out of the marriage.So my advise to u is to get a divorce and move on to that person u are looking at.Good luck
2006-12-03 11:59:36 · answer #10 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋