i have been with many men, but i have never reached my "peak". Is there a way to make myself get there? I can do it when by myself but how can i "there" with him in the bedroom. I never feel finished and im frustrated. Is something wrong with me because i have neverrrr gotten to my peak.
2006-12-03 11:42:20 · 9 answers · asked by JASMINE T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You probably are having trouble relaxing. It may help to turn out the lights so you don't feel like you are being watched. Or if you think it might get you used to finishing with him you can take care of it yourself while he watches. Don't be afraid to tell him how you feel and what you need. Most guys are eager to please!
2006-12-03 11:45:17 · answer #1 · answered by Aloe-ish-us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have read that some woman are incapable of an orgasm. However I'm not sure this is true. I think you should not try so hard and just let your body be free with it. Perhaps you are preventing it from happening because you are too stressed about it in the first place. Relax and let things flow naturally.
2006-12-03 19:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's an easy one !!!while you are making love touch yourself guys love it!!!!!They'll get off on it and so will you!!!!Trust me i used to be in that same situation don't be shy !! He's not the only one who deserves a climax!!!!!!
2006-12-03 19:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
consult a doctor, but its probably nothing, make sure before he stops u are satisfied
2006-12-03 19:45:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the initiative and tell him what you want, but don't sound like a drill sergant. lots of guys like it because they want to please you and they want to be the one that takes you there. get on top, bend over, sit up, etc. anyway that will please you but you have to let him know.
2006-12-03 19:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by NoDeal21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The men your are with are not into satisfying you babe!! Find men that are more mature about how to please a women!!
2006-12-03 19:45:19 · answer #6 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats easy, use a vibrator with your man.
I loved it when my gf did that and she got off allot.
2006-12-03 19:44:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him give you oral as often as it takes.
2006-12-03 19:44:06 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come to me just kidding. i can't really tell you.
2006-12-03 19:46:01 · answer #9 · answered by Arnold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋