I get almost there but I can't get all the way
2006-12-03 10:32:28 · 16 answers · asked by awfulp 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
same thing happens to me just rub ur self while they do you and also think sexy thoughts that always helps..and trust me dont think to much about getting an orgasm coz u will just get stressed...
2006-12-03 10:34:10 · answer #1 · answered by Sexy_mum24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women can only climax by rubbing the clitoris with a soft finger tip. Your partner may be rubbing too hard, too soft, or even with the wrong motion. You can try rubbing it yourself during intercourse, but this may overstimulate you, preventing orgasm. Experiment a little. Use toys, different positions, etc.. Your partner is probably not the problem at all. It is most likely your body and your personal sensitivity levels. It is actually pretty normal. The clitoris is the most sensitive part of the entire human body, and therefore very complicated. MANY women go through this. Don't worry about it. If you can't climax during intercourse, then focus more on climaxing afterward. Having your partner help you out with this after intercourse is alot of fun.
2006-12-03 18:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was the same for me. My current boyfriend is the only guy who managed it. Saying that we were together for around 3 months before it happened. I think you just need to find someone who is willing to try different things and give you the attention you need. It will happen for you, i promise.
2006-12-03 18:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by Diet_smartie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, look, that used to happen to me- what I had to do is become less inhibited with the other person. Do you do special things by yourself? Special toys? Bring those in to sex. You have to trust the person more than you are now.
2006-12-03 18:38:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stimulate yourself like you do when you're alone. Maybe your partner would even like to watch!
2006-12-03 18:39:58 · answer #5 · answered by dorothy1gale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am going to assume that you are female
you probably need clitoral stimulation with your partner
he can do it or you can do it
lots of women can not have vaginal orgasms
just clitoral
hope this helps
for the record i am female!!lol
2006-12-03 18:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all in your head. Try to go without masterbating and have your partner touch you where you like to be touched and have them do it while you are having sex.
2006-12-03 18:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read that in a medical book that, one reason is that you may be nervous of getting pregnent. Or he just sucks.
2006-12-03 18:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by Zoie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who has to use a vibrator while having sex to orgasim properly. Maybe you could try introduce this into your sex life.... I am sure your partner won't mind!
2006-12-03 18:36:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's because you are trying too hard! stop thinking about him, just think of yourself, act like he's not there, play out your fantasies in your own mind, and go for it....use him!
2006-12-03 18:36:54 · answer #10 · answered by josie_cy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋