I have a friend who admitted to me that he fancies me but he has a boyfriend.
Every time were together (just as friends) we just lust after each other i can smell how hot he his and vice vesa we both get butterflys in our stomacs when were near each other and smile when each other enter the room we cant even sit together any more because last time we nearly kissed each other.
Ive told him i want him as well and promised i would not cme betwen him and his boyfriend (he doesnt want to loose his boyfriend!)
what should i do?
2006-12-03 10:20:32 · 13 answers · asked by banditdoz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think you should leave him alone if he wants you enough he will follow you when he is single. Thats the way it must be. In 6 mths time your feelings will be different about him. Walk now.
2006-12-03 10:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by patrick m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you be in love with two people at the same time? First of all can you define love and lust between these two words, I do not think that this other guy loves you, he only wants to have sex with you, because if he did he would have broken up with his boyfriend to be with you. Don't get your hopes up that someday he will give up his boyfriend to be with you. Find yourself someone else that really would appreciate you for being you, and maybe you will eventually fall in love with that person. Good luck, and I wish you the best in your future.
2006-12-03 20:15:00 · answer #2 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not in love with him - you hardly know him - its lust!
If someone wishes to see two guys then they ought to respect and be honest with themself and others and not label one of them a boyfriend. Its fine to gad about if everyone knows the rules but very unfair when he is pretending someone is a boyfriend when they are not treating them that way.
He is not respecting that and he wont respect you - all it is is lust - and you ought to be able to see that. It sounds like you don't care about the other person which is totally disrespectful and sad
2006-12-04 03:14:09 · answer #3 · answered by Saucy B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever thought bout three men and a lady erm it does work, mayb ur friend and his man and you could share share share, its every mans dream to share a gal, well straight mans anyhow, but really if ur a true friend, you will be happy for your man friend and let him live his time with this lad/man, ur turn might come it might not, but at end of day you will have a happy and wonderful friendship with both guys.
2006-12-03 18:53:21 · answer #4 · answered by shywazz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be in love with two people. If you think you are it is lust or infatuation.
2006-12-03 18:27:48 · answer #5 · answered by sashromancefreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We cant love two people at the same time.
But we can "LUST" as many as we want
2006-12-03 19:41:13 · answer #6 · answered by anne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mate don't go there, don't force it, just put your self out there and let him know you are available for him. Let him initiate someitt after all its on his head.
2006-12-03 19:16:04 · answer #7 · answered by ANTJOHN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know wat u mean cause im wit thhis guy n i really like him but i also like my ex i went out with my ex 6 months n he kissed me and i felt so happy and then my boyfriend found out n im confused hes really pissed off but i told him i didnt kiss him he kissed me im in love wit 2 ppl but im think im goin 2 go out bwit my ex
2006-12-03 18:50:09 · answer #8 · answered by saoirse d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lust mate not love
2006-12-03 18:30:39 · answer #9 · answered by simon m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up x
2006-12-03 18:25:35 · answer #10 · answered by misbehave4me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋