Ive been having sex for about 3 months, and im not sure if ive had an orgasm! is there something wrong with me

Answer 1

Here are some general orgasm indicators, describing the build up and the moment itself:

* rising feeling of intense pleasure;
* increase in blood pressure and pulse rate;
* breathing quickens;
* increase in vaginal lubrication;
* clitoris becomes erect and exposed;
* breasts become enlarged, nipples erect;
* skin flushes, particularly the face and chest;
* pelvic muscle spasms, causing vaginal contractions and orgasmic sensations.

Answer 2

Well, there's always the obvious way I could figure it out...

But dodging sexual harassment, one thing women who've orgasmed with me report is that they have no concept of time. If you can tell about how much time has passed during sex, you haven't orgasmed.

From the hearsay I've gotten, a female orgasm feels like a serious of extremely pleasureable waves that originate at the sex, and flow swiftly throughout your body.

Also, a female orgasm is an implosion instead of an explosion. If you find yourself barely able to exhale, and your partner notices your back is arched (you might have to talk about this awhile afterward), and you feel really damn good, then you've probably orgasmed.

Communication between partners is crucial to maximum pleasure. Happy Humping.

Answer 3

Youd know if you had an orgasm-trust me! :)

Well if its only one guy that cant get you off, maybe he's just inexperienced. If youve been having this problem with multiple guys, maybe you just arent relaxing your body enough. Some women are harder to reach to climax than others and some gets theirs in like 5 min.! It all depends on your body and who youre with. Theres diff ways to get an orgasm when youre having sex so maybe you should try new things.

If nothing changes, maybe you should ask a doctor if you have a problem.

Answer 4

Not really, a lot of women rarely experience an orgasm during sex.

Try this, have him go down on you until you feel like your ready to orgasm, then get his penis inside you. Just remeber to always use a condem.

Answer 5

no nothings wrong with you. try inside and outside stimulation. use a vibrator alone and with a partner. work on it by yourself first. I had sex for a few years before I orgasmed. good luck. Oh and you would know it if you did.