Is this common? And how do people cope with the low periods? A short time ago I was feeling fairly happy, feeling I could not imagine life without my husband.... Now I feel as if I can not stand the sight of him!!! Am I just completely insane?
2006-12-03 10:06:32 · 15 answers · asked by Stephanie C 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yo Yo's are normal. Good and Bad times go hand in hand..
The bad times, make you appreciate the good times just as much...
and you wouldn't fully be able to appreciate the good times, without first knowing what the bad are like..
I always say... "I love you ALWAYS no matter what.. but sometimes I dont like you" and you have to realize its ok to feel that way.. and that the bad time will pass!
Good Luck :)
2006-12-03 10:43:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah we all go through ups and downs......to explain why we do this takes a little understanding.....for the most part when men are not getting attention they will find ways to totally pee you off so that they can go out on their own.....because men do not feel guilt........we are also very much like children in the sense that when we do not get our own way we either sulk or argue...it's the same when we're not getting enough sex......we are totally huffy pants...i don't know what it is that make women yoyo but i hope it helps you understand your husband better..
2006-12-03 10:17:09 · answer #2 · answered by David M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not insane. I think it's perfectly normal, especially the first 3 years. For some reason, marriages seem to level out after that and you get to know each other better and those times come alot less frequent. Hang in there! We've all been through it!
2006-12-03 10:10:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not insane, you are normal. I actually know exactly how you feel, I am on the low end right now, it sucks but in the end yoyos are fun and it will go up again!
2006-12-03 10:09:25 · answer #4 · answered by I do what I want.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amen sister. I feel the same way. My husband & I used to spend every waking moment together, at work & home. and I loved it. Now he just irritates me. He'd rather play his stupid game online than spend it with me. Ever since he found this online game, he's addicted for hours on end, while I'm cleaning house & picking up after him, his two kids, & our 2 yr old. I've become extremely bitter & bitchy, cuz it's the only way to get him to notice me or listen to anything I say. I guess I need a new hobby too.
2006-12-03 10:18:09 · answer #5 · answered by catwoman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I think that all couples go through rough times. If you still have mutual love, trust and respect for one another I don't think you have anything to worry about. Focus on his good traits and why you fell in love with him in the first place. You'll be fine. Don't let things go on for too long. In the end it doesn't matter who was right. All that matters is that you love and have one another.
2006-12-03 10:13:44 · answer #6 · answered by mamabear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea It's normal... nobody is perfect rite?? I feel the same way too sometimes...but not as much as u..the day when I won't be able to satnd the sight of him, I'll know I gotta do somethin abt it asap!!
2006-12-03 10:46:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal, but it shouldn't be as extreme as you're saying. You can't stand the sight of him? Yikes.
2006-12-03 10:09:12 · answer #8 · answered by rockingharder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is but how much more of it do u want. that is what u must ask yourself. usually the lows do not go away but the highs do. good luck
2006-12-03 10:09:33 · answer #9 · answered by keithy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't be like that. You both should have the relationship as the top priority in your lives. If not, then you have serious problems.
2006-12-03 10:08:38 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋