Ok the secret is out, everyone knows women love having a second check and milking men out of 18 years of his checks....I have seen women HUNT men with good paying jobs just to have his kids. I see them all the time unemployed or working some min wage job, driving new cars and a back seat full of kids driving over Grandmas house so they can go party.
Don't you have any shame what so ever?
2006-12-03 09:53:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I DO NOT HAVE KIDS BUT MY FRIEND DOES AND TO BE TOTAL TY HONEST WITH YOU SHE DOES THAT AND IT MAKES ME SICK BECAUSE IT IS WRONG SHE LOVES THAT SECOND PAYCHECK AND HER WELFARE MORE THAN HER KIDS. I HAVE TOLD HER THIS BUT SHE THINKS NOTHING OF IT AND THE KILLING PART IS SHE ALREADY HAS 4 KIDS WITH 4 DIFFERENT BABY DADDY'S AND SHE IS PREGNANT AGAIN WITH HER 5 BABY DADDY 5 CHECKS!!!
2006-12-03 10:01:31 · answer #1 · answered by jsxy695 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What are you taking about....... I had kids because i loved my man!
If the man thinks what you do then he should not have kids!
He should be smart and use protection! If he does have the kids and puts himself as the daddy then it is by law required he help raise them , instead of getting the girl pregnant and running away to be free while the woman does all the work raising the kids! So the man can go party and be unfaithful to another woman and get her pregnant! If the man can play then the man must pay! It is the law ...so, does the man have any shame what so ever!!!!!!!!
2006-12-03 10:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by MagikButterfly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely correct some women do this (I personally know a few) but not all. It is a crying shame because they give good woman a bad name but think about it this way. If they man took as much responsibility as the woman is supposed to and used protection or stopped having one night stands with loose women then maybe they wouldn't have this problem.
2006-12-03 09:58:24 · answer #3 · answered by juicie813 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might have an abortion... Abortion isn't the homicide of a toddler. this is the battling of an undesirable being pregnant. there's a extensive distinction. i'm sorry yet while your fiance won't have the ability to appreciate all your reasoning then consistent with possibility he's not superb for you. this is your physique and your existence and it only would not sound like having a toddler is what you p.c. in any respect. Abortion isn't some thing you will desire to lie approximately, neither is it some thing you will desire to would desire to lie approximately on your companion. Did this talk in no way arise in the 4 years you have been dating? :/ seems such as you would be able to desire to have an extremely severe talk with him approximately this. i actual desire you establish on some thing quickly. only confirm you do what's excellent for you, no longer your fiance. stable success.
2016-10-13 22:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting that you include ALL women in this comment. Do you think that way of your mother?
Anyway, I'm married to my baby's father. We were married for a couple years before we even got pregnant. I had my baby because we're in love and wanted to raise a child and I love children.
However, my husband's ex-wife even admits that she only had her daughter to trick my husband into getting money from him. Now we pay an insane amount of child support to a golddigger who really doesn't even need the money since she married another man for his money (admittedly). And in the meantime, we're struggling to raise a preemie. It's not fair, but it's life and no one ever said it was going to be fair.
2006-12-03 10:44:44 · answer #5 · answered by Megan V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's sad that you truly believe that women have kids just to collect child support. Women don't make babies by themselves. Men have to be responsible for the children they bring into this world.It's the least they can do since a lot of them don't even take part of their childrens lives.
2006-12-03 10:00:03 · answer #6 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these must be the wrong types of women. no woman in her right state of mind should want to go through that much pain of child birth just to get a child support check.
2006-12-03 10:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think anyone who has a child for not only the child support but the WELFARE should be shot! Women should have their uterus's sewn shut until they pass a battery of psych evaluations and tests!
2006-12-03 10:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by fastlanejiggy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're right, this does happen sometimes. Not the norm.
My questions is - When are men going to stop sleeping, unprotected, with any girl that says yes?
2006-12-03 10:00:23 · answer #9 · answered by irish_yankee51 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo dud if women felt guilty about this. Their wouldn't be so many children in the world without father's. Think about it dud.
2006-12-03 10:00:02 · answer #10 · answered by omegarussell42 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋