lately it has been really hard for me with my parents and my friends.my friends are mad at me because my other friend is mad at me. half of them have been treating me like crap for a long time and people always ask me if why i am still friends with them. i knew them for a long time and it would be really hard if i just stop hanging out with them but i dont want to be treated like crap.i know i have some other friends and i can hang out with them but i am confuse about everything else that is happening in my life.what should i do.
2006-12-03 09:53:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Makeup
i noe exacttly what ur giong through bc i am going throu it to ( ive also went through it before) it just part of being a teen !! wonderfull isnt it??
2006-12-03 10:03:41 · answer #1 · answered by Because The Drugs Never Work 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember life begins the day after you graduate from high school, its nothing but pure drama. Concentrate on your school work and remember when you leave the doors of that school those not so nice friends will go their way and you will go yours. I know that doesn't help you for this exact moment, but the best thing you can do is ignore them. A true friend will be there for you through thick and thin. I think you know in your heart what you should do with this situation its all in whether you have the backbone to stand up to these so called "friends". Good luck in this situation and remember God is our closest friend and the ONLY one we can rely on all the time.
2006-12-03 18:07:11 · answer #2 · answered by Jim&Mindie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this happens to me all the time i think that is the situation is how i think it is, just try and giv your friends a little space for a lil while, ok, and then at lunch or somethingtalk to your friend that is mad at you and ask what you can do to make it up to them or what you did wrong so you can fix it and then once you fix it try to figure wut is up between your other friends that are fighting and see what you can do to solve the conflict, and once everything is good ask them to stop treating you like crap but if you really want everyone to be friends again then you might have to deal with being treated like crap because if your like that bak to them it will only make them even more mad.
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2006-12-03 18:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did have the same problem if they are treating you like crap and just bc the other friend is they aren't really your friends are they? They're just idiots and I suggest that you make some new friends and most likely later on they will relize what they lost. You'll be so much happier.
2006-12-03 18:01:06 · answer #4 · answered by Taylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hang in there. You need to just let these 'friends' go for now. It's not worth it. My teen years were crappie and believe me, the phrase, "This too shall pass," has help me me through a lot in my life. I don't want to sound like a parent, but right now, they are the ones you need to deal with. Keep your grades up and follow the house rules, and hang in there. If these folks are your friends, they will still be there for you.
2006-12-03 23:33:55 · answer #5 · answered by cajunsma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Missy you can't chose your family, but you can choose your friends. My question is if your friends treat you like crap are they really your friends? Sounds like it's time for you to leave those so called friends behind and move on and hang out with people who respect and treat you right. Move on baby girl and leave them behind. You deserve better friends, and real friends will treat you right.
2006-12-03 18:04:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, we all have to set boundaries and if you continue to allow people to treat you crappy then you are settling for less. If you feel this is wrong the way your friends (or so called friends) are treating you then you need to move on. Always remember, people only continue to do crappy things to us because we allow them to get away with it. You deserve better, don't you think?
2006-12-03 18:03:02 · answer #7 · answered by Vee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn how to do your makeup well and get some confidence. Take a break from your friends for a while and stay in your room perfecting your makeup techniques. You will find new friends. And you will look great.
2006-12-03 17:57:09 · answer #8 · answered by bluasakura 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem it all boils down to rumors. Just tell them how you feel and whats on your mind and you didn't do anything that people say you did, and hopfully you didn;t just tell the truth. If you said/did it then say it forget them if they can't forget what you did. Also why did you pu this in makeup?
2006-12-03 17:58:42 · answer #9 · answered by hottierecy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one deserve's to be treated badly and as you put it like crap. Tell them how you feel and if they still don't stop. Then their not good friends and they don't deserve to have you as their friend.
2006-12-03 17:56:01 · answer #10 · answered by RousseSantini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you don't want to be treated like crap anymore.
2006-12-03 17:54:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋