What if you were pregnant but you thought that everything was alright but you never knew that if the boy that you were pregnant by was going to help you. Then all of a sudden you are 4 months and you start having complications and find out that you are having twins and was threating a miscarriage because you never took enough time to get enough rest for two babies and that you should have been taking it easy. Then your water breaks and you don't know what to do besides call your mom. So when you get to the hospital the tell you everything might be alright just get some rest and that your babies still have strong heartbeats. So you go home and and get plenty of rest and take it easy until two days later when you are in pain and you have a miscarriage. You don't hear anything from the babies father until it's time for you to get out of the hospital he calls your room and is showing you any sympathy.
WHAT WOULDYOU DO?
2006-12-03 09:40:52 · 7 answers · asked by A 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Babydoll it sounds like u have been through a terrible ordeal, but don't worry yourself over this guy. Look at it as a blessing in desquise. you found out just how this guy is. you can't trust him nor depend on him. Just think about how it would be if u had these babies and had to rely on him to take care of them? You've been given a second chance to now take this time focus on you and what you want in the future and don't rely or put your trust in a man for everything. I mean its not wrong to want a boyfriend, but don't let that be you only focus. Get back into your studies and your dreams. Strive to make them come true and get an education where you will work for all you want and won't have to marry just for security. That if u marry its for love and love only, but if u had too you could take care of you. Don't think about revenge, you becoming something will be the only revenge that you'll ever need. Trust me I know. Besides the right man that sees you can take care of yourself will know that u are worth supporting and won't leave u behind. My husband did that for me and I love him dearly for it. Hun u r stronger than u give yourself credit, just learn from your mistakes and move on. You'll be ok and it doesn't hurt to pray it makes a difference. God bless hun.
2006-12-03 09:50:35 · answer #1 · answered by Friendly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have anything more to do with him and going forward you should look for nicer guys and refrain from having sex. I know this is very sad and will take time to get over -- and part of you will always be sad about this -- but you should also take it as a wake-up call to straighten out your life and get it together. I'm presuming you're a teenager, and therefore you are too young to really be able to take care of children properly. You should concentrate on your studies, and on growing up into a fine young woman who can go on to college and/or to work and support herself and be independent and then find the right person to be with for the rest of your life.
2006-12-03 18:29:06 · answer #2 · answered by Shars 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave the guy and try to move on with your life. you will have a lovely family with the right guy one day. and take care of yourself! :)
2006-12-03 17:46:59 · answer #3 · answered by megz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I'd forget about him and go have a good cry.
2006-12-03 17:46:54 · answer #4 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B****slap him, and give him a piece of my mind... but hopefully that will never happen to me!
2006-12-03 17:44:00 · answer #5 · answered by Kitsch Nouveau; 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your parents should of told you, LIFE HAS CONSEQUENCES.
Thanks, you just made our taxes go up.
2006-12-03 18:32:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the jerk.
2006-12-03 17:44:34 · answer #7 · answered by deviatedheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋