Me and my hubby has been together for three years and married for a year and a half. 3 months after we got married we argued alot about things that happend in our past, but now that where pretty much over that I feel that we dont look at each other the same anymore or we dont love each other like we uste to. I wanna show him that he is the only somebody in my life right now other the baby on the way. I really really love him and I want to make this work with out a dought. but how should I go by doing that?
2006-12-03 09:15:03 · 8 answers · asked by missy87 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We hurt each other. pluss I'm eight months pregnant b4 my doctor told me I had to get off my feet I worked to jobs at the same time. I never totaly depended on him to take care of me at all.
2006-12-04 08:23:26 · update #1
Two Jobs* correction
2006-12-04 08:24:19 · update #2
tell him and be faithful. Time is probably the best proof that you can give him. Same applies from him to you I'd think.
2006-12-03 09:17:15 · answer #1 · answered by pzratnog 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being married is a two way street. But you can go a long way along the street to meet the guy. If he, however, is not committed to making it work, you will have to decide to stick it out come thick or thin. I do. Some days will be tough.
A sure way to improve things is to admire what he does that is good. Shower him with thanks and praise for the things that he fixes around the house. Or for the paycheck that he shares with you. these guys are suckers for admiration. hope you stick it out. Been married 38 years. 5 kids.
2006-12-03 09:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by thisbrit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is your husband, the two of you need to sit down and have a serious heart to heart. You listen as he talks and he should listen while you talk. And the two of you should get it all out on the table. And then move from there. The past is in the past, and leave it there. Moving forward everyday, being sure to show each other how much you love and appreciate the other. good luck and God bless****
2006-12-03 09:19:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit lying to him, u don't love him or esle it would have not come to this, u just need someone to take care of u and the kids so u don't have to work. if u truely want it to work give him anything he wants, cuz i will bet the arguements were about u being a cold, fridgid heartless u know what in bed, u had better thaw out and start loving on ur man or he will find it elsewhere and asl stop spending his hard earned money, cuz i bet u don't work either, huh
2006-12-03 09:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by keithy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try and not be looking at things negatively......youse are still together just start enjoying him again......give him a playful punch in the tummy and smile and say,......do you know what.......i love you ya big oaf...... keep doing this until your feeling better about the two of youse or if this doesn't work out at least you've bruised his stomach..........it's coming upto christmas..remember the book a christmas carol....there's still time......
2006-12-03 09:23:52 · answer #5 · answered by David M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that.
It is normal to look at your spouse differently after the honeymoon is over.
2006-12-03 09:18:25 · answer #6 · answered by jpbofohio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show this page to him..
2006-12-03 09:23:24 · answer #7 · answered by milk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
swallow
2006-12-03 09:18:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋