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My dad wants me to keep a secret. He's gay and has a bf named charles,that i love and consider to b like my other dad. But awhile back i walked in on my real dad having sex with this other guy thts like my age(Im 15) Now i dont know what to do bc my dad made me promise not to tell charles. But idk if i can keep the secret bc i love charles and i dont wanna hurt him. but im afraid tht if i tell charles will he'll get made and call the cops on my dad cuz the other guy wasnt 18.ive kept the secret for like 2 months now but yesterday i walked in on them again. and now i think the solution to my problem is to kill myself... i cuz i seriously cant take it anymore. I dont know what else to do

2006-12-03 09:07:39 · 4 answers · asked by 2 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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I understand your dilemma but nothing is so bad that you have to kill yourself. Think of what this will do to the people who love you. I really don't know how to advise you on what to do regarding your dad but I will say this "Everything done in darkness will come to light." Maybe you should go to your dad and tell him had bad keeping this secret is making you feel and how much you don't like betraying Charles. Also tell him that keeping the secret makes you have thoughts of suicide. That should really open his eyes. Good luck and remember that your life is valuable.

2006-12-03 09:15:55 · answer #1 · answered by juicie813 5 · 0 0

I hate when parents put things off on thier children... Hunnie if this child is only 15 then you need to tell someone that is child abuse and rape regardless of if it was willing or not.... Charles will be hurt when he finds out but he finds out you knew all along and never told him it will kill him more... be honest with charles and I am sure he will not cut you put of his life due to the mistakes your father has done..... But seriously your father needs help fast before he ends up in prison or something worse,,,

2006-12-03 09:12:08 · answer #2 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 0 0

You need to tell Charles or the cops - your dad is a pedophile.

2006-12-03 09:15:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0 0

YOUR DAD IS SICK
MOVE OUT

2006-12-03 09:17:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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