2006-12-03 09:03:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
yep, and i regret it, if i could do time over again i would have never of done it, i kick myself every day...
plaese don't do it it's just not right
2006-12-03 09:14:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I had one a few years ago after undergoing surgery and medication before finding out I was pregnant. I had the doc research the drugs I had been on and they confirmed that they were mutagenic. That, compared with my life's situation, led me to choose abortion.
It wasn't a decision made lightly, and although it affected me for some time after, it is not something I struggle with now or regret.
At the time I was in a stable and loving relationship. However, after a few years of sobriety my boyfriend began drinking again (not due to the abortion). Our relationship unraveled, ended, and eventually he broke into my house and raped me. While I was deciding if I could handle reporting it and going through the whole court thing against him, he managed to break into my girlfriend's house and rape her, too The next two years were agony for me and her as we went through the long court proceedings, and the bastard managed to plea down to one month in jail and two years probation.
Had I carried this man's child, I would have to face my rapist for the next 18 years. Although one incident did not affect or contribute to the other, I must say I am extremely glad that I do not have this man's child.
2006-12-03 17:31:46 · answer #2 · answered by Emily O 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have had 5 abortions. Although I am embarrassed about the number, I do not regret any of them and have never thought about them with guilt or remorse for even a minute.Three were surgical and two were chemical and they were all totally problem free. Don't worry or feel bad and ignore all the negative answers. It's just religious people trying to convince you not to have one because of their beliefs.
2006-12-05 21:22:36 · answer #3 · answered by fekend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i woke up crying from the anesthetic. i was forced into this by an ex partner.
i dont think about it too much as i miscarried before and after i had one and was bleeding before the procedure quite badly.
chance were i would have lost it any way( thats what my doctor said as during the scan the baby was smaller than its should have been)
it does hurt though that i wasnt allowed to do what i wanted but i am pregnant now after 5 'failed' pregnancies and everything is fine.
i still think about as they would have been two last month. but i have my current baby to look forward to.
cant change or alter the decisions i have made and have aceppted what has happened to me. i felt more strongly for pregnancies after that one which i think may be the reason im ok with it.
2006-12-03 17:19:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My cousin has had 3 of them, out of pure selfishness, she now has a beautiful baby that she loves with all her heart. She says that everyday of her life she regrets it, especailly when she looks into her baby now and thats all she thinks about, is what those other babies couldve been like. do you know what they do in an abortion? one way is while that baby is happliy and comfortable nesting in your tummy waiting to one day meet his mommy, all of a sudden the doctor takes those knife type thing and stabs it in the head, takes a vacuum and sucks out the baby... its alot more "gorey" than that but i wont go to details. now, stabbing ANY living, breathing, THING, PERSON is M.U.R.D.E.R!
2006-12-03 17:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by yahoocraze 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no i have never had one. i personally dont agree with them. i dont think that it makes a person bad.. but o just dont like it. i think that just because a woman or a girl makes a mistake.. then the baby shouldnt have to die for it. i am in no position to tell you what to do.. but i just think that you should give it for an open adoption.. or give it to a hospital or police or something.. ah.. i dont know..
2006-12-03 17:13:24 · answer #6 · answered by Brittany 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many years ago. Still think about it every day, and regret it with all my heart
2006-12-03 17:08:04 · answer #7 · answered by michelle s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋