I hate love and I want to puke at people I see making out or holding hands. I laugh at people if they are crying because they broke up with someone because they took a relationship so seriously. I want to be lonely the rest of my life... maybe I will become a hobo. I had non-abusive parents and I was never in a relationship, so I was never hurt by love. I do well at school and I have friends, but I don't like talking to people. It seems like I have hated love ever since I gave up looking for a girlfriend years ago, because I relaized I was a fool and could never get a girl, and no girls approached me. So, I gave up. I see that since I'll have no family, maybe I should not go to college and drop out of highschool so I don't have to work hard for nothing. I didn't feel like waiting years for a woman to come along. I kind of want to see my parents cry if they don't have any grandkids and if I don't get married.
2006-12-03 08:53:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
No your not crazy. I think it's just a pathalogical fear of never having that special someone. Nevr wanting to wait. Your not crazy.....and your not alone. Lots of people go through things like this. You should see a counsalor(not spelled right)
Thats not an insult by any means but I think talking to some one about it will help.
Good Luck.........A Friend
2006-12-03 08:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by Courtney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a socio path. Either that, or you sound like you are bitter towards life and feeling sorry for yourself. Or maybe all of the above.
In fact, you said it yourself (quote)It seems like I have hated love ever since I gave up looking for a girlfriend years ago, because I relaized I was a fool and could never get a girl, and no girls approached me. So, I gave up.
Feeling sorry that some soul mate hasn't run over to you and attached herself to your hip isn't going to help. You have to be pro active and go and try to find your soul mate. They usually won't find you. Check out www.match.com, or even the classifieds in the paper. I got sick of waiting for Mr Right to plop down in front of me, and started putting out personal ads. It was fun, and you get to meet a lot of people. So pick yerself up and go get them. Just stop feeling sorry for yourself, most women don't go for that. Good luck. Oh, and if you can, read "The Art of Happiness" by the Dalai Lama.
2006-12-03 17:00:56 · answer #2 · answered by ANSWER MY QUESTION!! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This honestly sounds like some attempt at rebellion -- everyone around you is focused on love and relationships, so you want nothing to do with them.
It could be a phase that you will get over when you meet someone worth your time, or you could have some psychological issues that you're not dealing with -- rejection (or fear thereof), for example.
2006-12-03 16:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by wnk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably never happened to you something that will shake your body and mind. However...it seems you know the problem is...just try to face with reality....life is struggle and it is better when you put effort on something and when you feel the success...maybe now you are young...but after a while you will get bored...that's why I'm saying it is a better to go to school and do something with your life....
have fun and don't forget your obligations :)
2006-12-03 17:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by Aquamarine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not crazy...but you definitely have issues. If you don't change your attitude, no one will want to be around you. You're only hurting yourself by being this way (negative). Life is full of choices...right now you're choosing to be miserable and try to make everyone around you miserable. Only YOU can change...the world won't change for you
2006-12-03 17:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your crazy. I think your depressed. Since you are talking about dropping out of high school I assume you are in your teens. The world changes after high school.
2006-12-03 17:00:03 · answer #6 · answered by wes41550 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're not crazy, you're depressed, you need to mingle with meet and mingle with people have a relationship, with a woman, man, or whatever you want, just when you get older, don't regret you did not do anything when you were younger...
2006-12-03 17:11:11 · answer #7 · answered by GYM25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not crazy.
Maybe more of a cynist/pessimist.
You also seem incredibly angry/lonely
2006-12-03 17:15:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have your while life to worry about that.
Coach
2006-12-03 17:00:55 · answer #9 · answered by Thanks for the Yahoo Jacket 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, go ahead, it's your life, do what you want with it.
2006-12-03 16:59:58 · answer #10 · answered by yahoohoo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋