Im still having a problem with a "friend" of mine. On halloween she wanted to egg a really sweet OLD LADYS HOUSE, just because she gave ot rasins. I was totally agenst it and left really early. I thought that it wasn't right. Later that week she started getting snotty. I ignored that and went on being her "friend" (saying hi in the halls, that kind of stuff). Then about a week after she started saying really nasty things behind my back (which if we were friends she totally wouldn't have) and ignoring me at school. Now shes been trying to take all my friends away.
Please don't tell me this is childish, i havn't had anyone do this to me in like 3 years and Im not sure how to deal with it.
2006-12-03 08:51:25 · 6 answers · asked by Cayla Y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
We have been friends for about 2 months for any one wondering
2006-12-03 09:01:24 · update #1
Well she can't seem to get over the fact that you rejected her idea. But you did right. First thing to do is confront her and ask her why she's doing this. If she refuses to tell you, tell her you better grow up or else. ANd tell your friends what she wanted to do and why you didn't think it was right. Some of your real friends will agree with you and some are just stupid. But you ahve to confront her and tell this time I am been nice. NExt time it will be different.
2006-12-03 08:59:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her. You are better off without. You did the right thing and don't feel bad about your decision for a sec.
She is the one that is mean and does not know how to be a good friend. Your real friends will stick by you. The ones that aren't will side with her. And again, you're better off without.
2006-12-03 17:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by mamabear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she isn't a great friend in the first place. Is she really your friend? Why? How can you let somebody treat you like this and then call them your friend? Have you tried talking to her asking how this makes her so mad? How long have you guys been friends anyway? You should just get her out of your life and move on.
2006-12-03 16:57:51 · answer #3 · answered by Loaha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that saying "With friends like that who needs enemies". I believe that it comes into play here.. Drop her!!!
2006-12-03 17:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIND NEW FRIENDS
SHE SEEMS VERY MEAN
JUST IGNORE HER AND STAY AWAY FROM HER
SHE MIGHT GROW UP SOME DAY
2006-12-03 16:59:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did what you thought was right. she sounds like a crap @ss friend. dont be friends with her anymore.
2006-12-03 17:27:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋