I hate love and I want to puke at people I see making out or holding hands. I laugh at people if they are crying because they broke up with someone because they took a relationship so seriously. I want to be lonely the rest of my life... maybe I will become a hobo. I had non-abusive parents and I was never in a relationship, so I was never hurt by love. I do well at school and I have friends, but I don't like talking to people. It seems like I have hated love ever since I gave up looking for a girlfriend years ago, because I relaized I was a fool and could never get a girl, and no girls approached me. So, I gave up. I see that since I'll have no family, maybe I should not go to college and drop out of college so I don't have to work hard for nothing.
2006-12-03 08:35:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I didn't feel like waiting years for a woman to come along.
2006-12-03 08:37:47 · update #1
maybe you feel bitter at people or a tad angry that maybe you havent got the love you see displayed before you, so maybe you think stuff them, who needs them anyway, they suck, i can relate to this as i have similar struggles in life myself. i think itll get to the stage where youll have to ask yourself some questions, like bein at a junction in a highway, and theres 2 roads which branch off in two different directions. one road, is the hobo road, the one you describe, where you soldier on alone, and inevitably become more embittered and resentfull of what you see around you. and the other road maybe is the one to try and integrate and use every amount of determination you have to join in in life, and reach your own personal goals and get that confidence up, and then at some point that ms right might come your way..but people are wired differently and i guess its whether you want that or not...you might see something you like in the ' hobo' lifestyle. some people are happy alone...but whatever you choose i sincerely hope its the right one for you and your happy with. tkcre kevin dude
2006-12-03 09:07:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You kind of sound like me. Except for the part that I don't hate love. I am hopelessly in love with people I could never be with and it depresses me until the point where I do things that are so drastic that it's quite concerning. Try not to be like that because it's just going to hurt you in the long run. Being a hobo is not a great hope for yourself. I am glad I don't want to do that. Instead, I set my goals too high.
I wish you luck with everything. I hope this makes you think.
2006-12-03 16:46:45 · answer #2 · answered by Brownie. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up on yourself. Speaking that way only leads to suicide. Life isn't only about being social. You can be whatever you want to be and be good at it, too. You are NOT going to be a hobo. Everyone is different and everyone has different opinions. So don't put yourself down that way. Maybe one day, something will happen, and you will end up with three kids, like the guy from the pacifier movie. And believe me, some girl will end up liking you someday.
2006-12-03 16:44:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you waiting for a woman to fall into your lap? they can usally keep their balance you know. wouldn't you feel that the woman was being a hussy if she approached you? are you looking for a man instead?
you could drop out of college, if you wanted. it's your life and you should do what feels right to you. though i'm curious as to why you would let the unknown decide your fate for you. if you feel that going to college gains you an education, why drop out? why let the apparant lack of love in your life be the deciding factor for you to become an uneducated person.
if you want to be a hobo. be a hobo. I don't think you watch those homeless people very well though. Because the homeless people know there's safety in numbers, they hang out in groups.
besides you're not lonely if you want to be alone. it's where you're alone and you don't want to be that it's loneliness.
2006-12-03 16:45:32 · answer #4 · answered by manywarhoops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, you sound like a great gie who is just a little depressed. You will get a nice hot girl for life. I went through this stage as well and now I got a girl. You wont become a hobo either you will go through college and become a skilled and rich person with a nice car, house and sexy wife. Trust me if you look you will find a girl.
2006-12-03 17:00:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need some drama in your own life in order to understand or empathize with others who have emotions. Shutting them off is so limiting. I don't want to wish crisis on anybody but that part of your brain needs to be activated so you can enjoy emotional fulfillment, the good and the bad. I've had enough pain for 6 people. Maybe that is why I'm sympathetic to the feelings of others.
Life is full of joy and pain, even love.
peace, nanaboss
2006-12-03 16:50:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are depressed and you gve up on love because you couldn't find it. The same thing happened to me for years. I finally decided that I am not going to be bitter about other people's romances or on the idea of ever finding my own. I don't hold my breath for the right person to come along, but I have not become sour. Try not to be so jealous of others. Remember that all events in life just arbitrarily happen to the people that they happen to.
Fairytales can come true, it can happen to you, if you're young at heart.
2006-12-03 16:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by the Bruja is back 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You'll pushing yourself too hard. You shouldn't have Given up looking for girls. If you hate love, you won't have a good future. You won't have any wife, kid[s], and your parents will feel sad. They can't take care of you for the rest of your life. When you'll a full grown man, you'll have to take care of your own parents.
Don't worry!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Everyone is different! Sometimes it takes a long while for a guy to find a girl. You just haven't found your type.
2006-12-03 16:49:02 · answer #8 · answered by CAN777 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being a girl myself I want to let you know MOST girls don't approach guys so if your waiting for that it might be awhile. Since you have friends why don't you have one of them hook you up with girl if your to shy or try and meet a girl on the internet by using myspace that way you don't have to physically talk and meet her till you are both ready. Do not give up on college if anything do it for yourself and your future because YOUR worth it.
2006-12-03 16:45:43 · answer #9 · answered by LaCasa Studio 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your title says you have a problem but you seem fine with it. So what's the problem?
2006-12-03 16:43:29 · answer #10 · answered by Kacky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋