I am seriously fighting a deep depression because of this. If there was an investigation and he were found guilty, THEN I'd be eligible for assistance, but until it's exposed I am out in the cold.
If the police do not SEE a crime then they also do not SEE a victim. I am invisible. I have "waves" of uncontrolable crying spells and I can't seem to shake it. I broke down in church again today. It's getting to where I do not want to leave the house at all.What I've been through is not NORMAL.
I have no job, no money, and no way to pay for a counselor. I AM looking for work, I'm not stupid. I'm scared.
Some of the laundered cash went through my checkbook- he would reimburse my credit card purchases with cash. I worked with him off & on for nearly 3 years and finally figured out where $800,000 had come and gone through the use of phony invoices in two shell companies. The IRS or FBI will surely assume I knew because we were married.
Any help?
2006-12-03 08:29:43 · 3 answers · asked by upside down 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I DID tell the police! They don't believe me & won't verify my evidence due to bank secrecy & privacy laws. I'm fearful this will haunt ME forever until it's out there. I did not know!
2006-12-03 08:48:46 · update #1
I am a criminal Justice major. If he is ever caught, you are just as much at fault. You need to tell someone of authority as soon as possible, or you may find your self in jail. Think about it this way the moment that you are married your credit become's one. So does everything else. You will be tried either for the same crime or a co-conspiritor. And if the DA looks into your emails and see this blot, then they already have you.
2006-12-03 08:39:55 · answer #1 · answered by Shel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to pray for strength to get though this. God loves us and he will listen. That doesn't mean the problem will just magically disappear. Next, contact your local health department. If you're in the US, they will have mental health clinics that usually just charge what you can afford. You need to talk this out with someone. Next, keep looking for a job. And lastly, when the authorities ask you any questions, be COMPLETELY honest. Do not try to cover up anything for your husband, because that will make you look guilty. Many blessings and I will keep you in my prayers.
2006-12-03 08:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not yet a member of the Republican Party, you should join immediately.
2006-12-03 08:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by randylucentphilosopher 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋