What are you to do if you have a (friend) on the side and you start not to want (IT) from your husband anymore, what should you do?
2006-12-03 08:28:29 · 22 answers · asked by Andy29Pandy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well if hes forcing you DIVORCE but if not then just tell him how you feel and he'll understand
2006-12-03 08:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by Slash123 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would suggest that you do nothing for right now. Especially not with the friend. Depending on how long you have been married, you might just be having some confused feelings right now. Give it some time try not to spend as much time with your friend and try to reconnect with your husband. Don't just run and get a divorce try to do some extra special things with him. Talk to him about what you are going through. You never know you might fall for him all over again. Good luck.
2006-12-03 16:45:56 · answer #2 · answered by REALISTIC 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Tell your husband that he is now free to go out and get a friend of his own without worrying about you. If that works for both of you, fine. If not, then it's time to get a divorce, I hope you find happyness eventually, remember though that you husband deserves better and shouldn't be the one punished here.
2006-12-03 16:35:30 · answer #3 · answered by togetheradecade 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Should have never gotten married in the first place.
You are obviously too immature to be married or just don't care.
Make a name for yourself. Your "friend" will help you do just that by sleeping with him.
Marriage takes work. It does not work and keep working just because you signed the papers.I could explain here but it sounds like you have a lot of growing up to do before you would ever understand.
2006-12-03 16:31:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let's see, you're bored with your husband and you want someone here to tell you it's OK to f*ck off him? Have you wondered why he may not be giving it yo you? perhaps he;s already getting some on the side. You are MARRIED!!! You took a vow. doesn't that mean anything to you? If it doesn't then do whatever you think is Right.
2006-12-03 16:41:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's called adultery, and you should have waited until you had a divorce from your husband before you became sexually intimate with the "friend" what you have managed to do is break a legal and binding contract of marriage which shows pretty lousy character and personallity. Get a divorce and allow your spouse to find a good person they deseve rather than you playing games and leading them on.
2006-12-03 16:42:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You are to get the divorce before you start seeing the one on the side....
You have to decide. Do you want your marriage? Then you had better do some talking, if not, go see a lawyer.
I am not here to judge you - I'm no angel.
Just decide what it is you want and go from there.
2006-12-03 17:09:22 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should get a divorce from your "friend" because you are being unfaithful to the man that you have vows with.
Did you really expect a different kind of answer?! You need to become responsible for your decisions. Poor hubby. You need to grow up.
2006-12-03 16:31:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Think that maybe you don't want to be married anymore? If you quit having sex with your husband he will get suspicious. So if you want to stay married, you'll have to keep having sex with your husband. You could also lose the bf.
2006-12-03 16:42:04 · answer #9 · answered by Beth T 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Crazy world will follow you... Do one step at a time. You are heading down a path that will feel like you will fall off an edge. Be careful... take steps... one at a time.
2006-12-03 21:44:16 · answer #10 · answered by stanmanin92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a real woman and tell your hubby the truth. He is the man that has stood beside you since you have been married. and i hope once you grow the balls to do what is right he kicks you to the curb.
2006-12-03 16:34:41 · answer #11 · answered by Stutsman 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋