I have not had any negative signs, and I still feel ok.
2006-12-03 08:10:34 · 28 answers · asked by Danielle L 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
First of all, sweetie, you need to leave that *******.
At 13 weeks, the baby is still relatively tiny. She/He is surrounded by many layers. Liquids, fats, muscle, skin. The belly is a safe place for babies. It would take a serious blow to injure the baby enough for complications.
There is nothing wrong with being over protective when it comes to the health of your child. If it would help you sleep better going to the doctor, then I suggest you do that. Voice your concern. She/He will check it out for you.
Best of luck to you.
Ashley.
2006-12-03 08:21:53 · answer #1 · answered by muertoalavida 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't - GO TO YOUR DOCTOR and have your baby checked. You're too early in the pregnancy for you to be able to feel the baby move, so you need to have you and the baby checked. NO excuses.
Speaking of NO excuses - report that jerk to the police. What he did honey is more than just "hit my stomach". He physically abused you and endangered your unborn child. ABUSE.
Is this the first time he's hit you? Episodes of abuse tend to increase during pregnancy, and the most common cause of death of pregnant women is abuse. And the most common abuser is the "boyfriend/spouse/significant other."
If he does it once - he'll do it again. I don't care how sorry he says he is, or that he says he'll never do it again. If you're living together - move, or have him move out. Tell him he cannot move back in, or even see you again until he's enrolled in AND attending anger management classes.
I know this sounds harsh, but this is no little thing. He hit you out of anger. He no doubt will try to justify it by saying that you made him angry and that's why he hit you. NOTHING you do ever justifies him hitting you. PLEASE respect yourself and love your baby enough to make sure the both of you remain safe.
Being alone when you are pregnant is tough, but it's better than the alternative of being in a relationship and being abused. Tell someone what happened, and get the baby checked. Have them listen to the heartbeat, and an ultrasound would be nice, too.
Blessings to you, and wishes for you to remain strong.
2006-12-03 08:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by kids and cats 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Please have your OBGYN check it out, for you and your baby. And please, please - get as far as you can from your boyfriend. He is no friend of yours. I'm sorry, sweetheart, but once a hitter, always a hitter. This will happen again. Tell your doctor what happened, ask a parent or friend to help you find counseling - just don't ever allow him to be near you or your baby again. If you stay with him it will be a travesty for your child. He will abuse your baby too - he already has. Hitting you is much the same as hitting your baby. Please, please go to your doctor to make sure you and the baby are alright. If there is any internal bleeding it could kill you without you ever realizing it was occuring in the first place if you don't check. You and your baby deserve a life free of fear and anger. Let all of your friends and family know what he did, and that you need to leave him - and that you need help. Surround yourself with as much support as possible. Do not allow him to abuse you and your baby again.
All the best. I am thinking of you.
2006-12-05 11:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by Me, Thrice-Baked 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is best to visit your OBGYN to make sure that you and your unborn child are okay. You might want to speak with your MD in regards to this situation, which obviously is not healthy for you or your child, hopefully they can give you resources for help. If you feel so inclined it would be in your and your child's best interest to get as far away from this person as possible. Pregnant women are on the top of the most abused list in our nation.
It's hard to determine whether your unborn child has suffered no ill effects from this action without getting an ultrasound to determine if the pregnancy is still viable.
Most importantly it's time for you to make some hard decisions about being in a situation that is dangerous to you and your child. Best of wishes to you and merry Christmas!
2006-12-03 08:40:36 · answer #4 · answered by NautyRN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The baby is probably ok.
Please leave this man, for baby and for you. Call a local woman's shelter even if you don't need to go to one (and for sure if you have nowhere else to go!) They usualy have counsellors on 24 hrs. You can talk to her and she can also let you know what kinds of help and resources might be available to you. I find that being able to talk to someone is very helpful
Womans shelters are not like homeless shelters. They are nice safe, clean places with everything you need. They will even help you get stuff for the baby if you need it.
I have used shelters twice many years ago due to the marriage I was in at the time. I recommend them and considered them an 'emotional vacation' to think about what I needed to do-without interference.
Good luck and blessings for you and baby
2006-12-03 19:41:26 · answer #5 · answered by paradox is interesting 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should still consult your doctor. Also you should leave your boyfriend for both you and your baby's safety. Any guy that would hit a girl, especially a pregnant girl (Anger is NOT an excuse) DOES NOT respect women and that is not a safe environment for you or you baby.
2006-12-03 08:23:26 · answer #6 · answered by Ava Mars 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Only a doctor can tell you if your baby is alright and you really need to let the boyfriend go. If he is hitting you now it will get worse and who knows what he could do to the baby. Please do yourself a favor and let him go. If you are not sure that you can care for a baby without him check into some counseling or perhaps think of adoption but do not let that boy (he is certainly not a man) get his hands on you or that baby again.
2006-12-03 08:20:50 · answer #7 · answered by barksabit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will probably be okay it takes a lot to disrupt the baby. But to be extremely safe I would go to the doctor just to make sure that everything is fine! Let your boyfriend know that hitting is not an okay behavior and how serious it could of been. No matter how much you like him, Love him, or think that you need him. YOU DONT, make sure he knows that he had better not ever hit you again. I would make sure to telll someone though so someone knows about it.
2006-12-03 08:17:49 · answer #8 · answered by aliemgirl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
So, being pregnant is measured by the 1st day of your final era. to that end, we've those 2 weeks the place we aren't quite pregnant however the implantation/fertilization is occurring in those 2 weeks, so technically it quite is risk-free in being pregnant. So, in case you're gestationally at 6 weeks, the fetal progression is relatively at 4 weeks.
2016-10-17 16:01:51 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you are in a bad situation, go to the doctor immediately. I don't know if you or if he knows that he can go the jail for hitting a pregnant woman. It sounds as though he is a batterer, you should look up domestic violence...look at the signs. The best thing for you is not to get caught up in a very bad bad situation. You should also try to talk to a counselor concerning domestic violence. IT's heart breaking that he has hit you and you are pregnant. Please try to seek help for yourself and your child.
2006-12-03 08:58:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋