this is not normal. my girl friend likes to wet her self. it all started on the way home from school. my girl friend really had to go. i said she can go at my house but it was too late. we were ten minutes away but she wet herself. i she started crying. i got her to my house and gave her some new clothes. the next day she had to go again. she was not so urgent. we were only 2 seconds from my house. literly i was opening the door, and she just peed all over. the next day in school i saw he peeing her self on the way to the batroom. then 2 days later, i was talking to her and she said she likes to do it. she says it makes her feel horny. so then she walks away and does it again. pleas give me advice. i'm really in love with her but i just can't look at her any more. i can't have a relationship with some one who likes to wet them selves. please help!!!!!!!!!!??????????
2006-12-03 07:56:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
please don't write any thing bad about her. please just give me advice
2006-12-03 08:05:12 · update #1
another problem is i don't think her parents know. she's thirteen. should i tell her parents? i mean i really really really REALLY like her.
2006-12-03 08:06:17 · update #2
she doesn't have a health problem. if you noticed the question she said she likes to do it to make her horny
2006-12-03 08:07:29 · update #3
please don't tell me to break up with her. i'm so crazt about her that i tackled her ex-boy friend to the ground because he called her a slut.
2006-12-03 08:15:40 · update #4
to the guy who calls himself D, i was not driving. i was wallking.
2006-12-03 08:26:35 · update #5
i'm really afraid to tell her about counsling. i'm afraid she'll get mad. how should i tell her with out making her mad or upset
2006-12-03 09:45:58 · update #6
i think i should just take the advice of breaking up. but i can't leave her like this. this desire could really affect her in life and i think she needs help.
2006-12-03 12:10:42 · update #7
i just got a text message from her. she wants to break up. she says she is tired of trying to help saying she can do what she wants. what do i do now? i was depresed at first but now i'm crying histericly. i've never felt so depresed. i know i can't just leave her like this. wanting to wet your self is a big problem. she'll hate me even more if i tell her parents.
2006-12-03 12:15:07 · update #8
Break ur relationship
if i were u i would do that
2006-12-03 07:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by The Dark Prince of Awesome 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her how u feel about the situation. She could be saying it because shes embarrased that she cant actually help it if that is the case then she needs to see a doctor she could have some kind of bladder weakness or kidney infection
2006-12-03 08:03:36 · answer #2 · answered by Cher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a serious talk with her. Tell her you care about her, you love her and you tell her this is not a good way to do to show her horniness. Let her know you are willing to help to stop this. Go to see a counseling with her and tell her you are doing this for a healthy relationship. My bf brought me to a counseling once for some problem and he told me he really loves me and he wanted to help me. Try not to argue with her.
2006-12-03 08:29:43 · answer #3 · answered by Crazy in love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is probably too embarassed to admit she has a problem. There is a condition called neurogenic bladder which makes it difficult to hold it. She should see a doctor because there is a treatment for it. Also, a UTI can cause increased urgency.
2006-12-03 08:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by sveta_dr_mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl has MAJOR issues. She needs to go to a doctor. She may have mental or emotional issues. Something else must be going on in her life that is not good. Try and talk her into going to a doctor.
2006-12-03 08:01:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anne B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that she shoukd see a counsilor.If she is not to old I would get het some Good Nights and see can wear them all day because they are for older people even teens.
2006-12-03 08:02:23 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her about it and ask what is going on ans dtuff like that.But if she is 13 and u were driving to ur house how old are you
2006-12-03 08:25:17 · answer #7 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can WE help? She's the one who needs help, not you!! She's not the only girl in the world for you. This tomatoe has some serious issues. I wouldn't want to be around while she's sorting them out.
2006-12-03 08:02:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her and ask her to try to stop it. If she really loves you, she'll understand.
2006-12-03 08:08:55 · answer #9 · answered by Crouton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there r alot of fish in the sea out there please move on this is a extremely unusual situation besides its nasty germy and she has to stink move on my friend move on
2006-12-03 08:16:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋