some people like me,others don't. am extremely lovable but i don't know why others,especially girls don't like me. this is my first year in this new school and i want to make more friends how can i do that??
ps. some friends,esp. boys who want to be my friends do that in private,and then they like ignore me at school or don't act or talk to me they way they do when not at school?? so i also need some help with that?? whats wrong and how can i make friends fast???
2006-12-03 07:32:16 · 20 answers · asked by gabi c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, first of all, those boys aren't real friends. If they ignore you at school, then they're ashamed of you or they don't want their "buddies" thinking they have you as their friend. Guys do that for some reason. It's their "ego" or something. You gotta find someone that doesn't care about whom they hang with or their personal appearance for that matter. Well... you might want to make sure that they bathe often because having a stinky friend can soil the relationship.
To make friends, you should realize your own talents and interests and if someone else has similar talents and/or interests, tell them about yours. One way that I made friends in school was drawing, which is my talent. I'm not great but my drawing impresses some people. Just do something you're good at and someone might notice it. Also, read books as often as possible. But don't get so involved in a book that you pass up an opportunity for someone to ask you if you can "chill" or talk with them for awhile. Read popular books once in awhile too as it can be a conversation starter. Make sure the cover is easily readable by anyone passing by. They may notice it and say that they are reading it as well.
Also, don't act like you're "trying" to make any friends. Someone should eventually say "hi" and take an interest in you. I would suggest that you pay attention to your school work more than anything because friends aren't always a great thing to have. I've had a few friends that really let me down sooner or later. Either they got too aggressive or too sensitive. People with emotional instabilities don't always make the best sort of friend. CHOOSE your friends wisely.
So, good luck. I hope you find some good friends.
2006-12-03 07:41:43 · answer #1 · answered by Russell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you pretty?
My daughter had a rough time occasionally from others and from female teachers that we could only attribute to her being pretty. Plain old jealousy.
You say you are extremely lovable, that might indicate that you just have a higher opinion of yourself than others, no way to know that without meeting you.
Another possibility is that you just think this stuff is going on because of age and the fact that you are in a new school.
The old saying, "To have a friend be a friend" is really true, so if you are waiting for people to rush up and admire you, you will have a long wait.
2006-12-03 07:38:04 · answer #2 · answered by Gaspode 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and be comfortable in your own skin. Why waste so much time and energy trying to be someone you are not? If you cannot be yourself and have real genuine friends to love you just the way you are, they are not your friends to begin with. Don't sell yourself short...I was told a long time ago that God does not make junk...I am no holy Roley, religious person at all...Today as an adult, I can appreciate that statement and know and understand exactly what is says....
2006-12-03 07:48:06 · answer #3 · answered by Butterfly Wings 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to make friends is by talking to them. When you get to know them they'll see how "Lovable" you are they'll start talking to you. And when they have a problem they can talk to you about and you can be a help. And for the boyz that talk to you when nobody is there girl, i think when you get friends, not tryin to be mean or anything but, just don't talk to them when you get around your new friends and then when you talk to them when noones's around, you can tell them how it feels when they act like they don't know you around people. But just talk to your friends and be friendly to them. GOOD LUCK
2006-12-03 07:41:33 · answer #4 · answered by Beautiful 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Join groups at your school or a sport then u'll definetly open your circle more meeting a variety then you'll meet there friends it will keep going from there
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2015-02-04 10:16:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just flirt with the boys who just somewhat like you.Always start your day with a smile.Be dressed well which attracts male.Use a Musk perfume.If you are extremely lovable and cutie you might have a lot lot friend.Every one needs a girl like you.If you do in private that's the reason they ignore you,cause they taste you and looking for more juicy one.Go to http://www.yahoo.com.chatroom and enter into a chat room and make as much as friends you like.
2006-12-03 07:40:06 · answer #7 · answered by Ciiemen p 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well first off in the question of making friends you must show yourself friendly..Second of all, those so called friends that will only be friendly in private and ignor you later,thats NOT your friends.It is hard to come to a new school,but you will make friends.I don,t underatand why the boys want to see you in private and ignor you in public...What are you wearing? are you dressing like a easy girl?Seems like the girls don,t like you because ???? are they jealous? or you exposing to much flesh? ask your self this question.....If so shape up!
2006-12-03 07:40:50 · answer #8 · answered by slickcut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a party. A unpopular kid at my school had one now everyone knows him he's got loads of friends. Its gotta be a good party though with alcohol
2006-12-03 07:36:04 · answer #9 · answered by nasherr 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should not stay friends with peolpe who arent your friends all the time. in high school i had very few friends because I was so loud and silly all the time. But now i have tons and tons of friends!!!! Dont ever change who you are....Its better to be hated for what you are than loved for what you are not!
2006-12-03 08:17:44 · answer #10 · answered by the_one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋