Here's the deal...in high school I was best friends with "Nicki", we were inseparateable. Then after I graduated (she was younger than me), some things happened...she came and lived with my husband (then boyfriend) and I, and after months of her paying no rent, I had to kick her out. After that, we didn't really talk to much anymore. I mean I didn't want to kick her out, but we had no money and here I was taking care of her, driving her everywhere, so on and so on. Well it had been awhile, and we hadn't talked for months. Right after my husband and I got married, my brother ran into her at a gas station. He told her that I had just got married recently...she got so mad I didn't include her in the wedding, much less invite her. I didn't even know where she lived or anything, and like I said hadn't talked to her in months. Well, a couple of years went by we saw eachother now and again. Well a couple of years back I wrote her a letter apologizing about everything. She called me and said .
2006-12-03 05:49:16 · 3 answers · asked by jessicalynn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
and said that the letter had made her cry and that all was forgivin. I told her that when I looked back at all of my friends that I considered her my best. So I thought maybe we could become friends again. We met once for lunch, I introduced her to my son (she has a daughter about the same age). After that, we really didn't talk anymore. We earlier this year I was at the eye dr. and she came up to me and was like oh my god how are you, etc..... She was telling me that she's on myspace and was telling me about old friends we used to know that were contacting her. Well I've talked to her a few times on myspace. we havent added eachother as friends. But here's the thing...I'm obsessed with her page. I go there like everyday and read her blogs and look at her pictures and her friends myspace pictures. I'm not like gay or anything like that...I just miss a really good friend and am a little jealous of how "popular" she is and how many friends she has now.
2006-12-03 05:56:56 · update #1
It just makes me kinda sad that I'm not one anymore. Am I crazy? Why am I so obsessed? I don't have many friends at all. I never really have, I'm one of those people that have one really good friend and that's really all. And now I really don't have to many friends at all right now, and don't really know how to go about making any. Please help me figure this out.
2006-12-03 06:01:05 · update #2
You did the right thing but I would not have apolagized to her she was a finacial burden to guys and she had to grow up sometimes people help people to much then they expect everything you did the right thing
2006-12-03 05:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by Fergie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Myspace is a way for people to reinvent themselves. It is not an accurate account of their life and their character. Of course people want to be liked, popular, and have the approval of others. And of course they are not going to advertise their enemies, mistakes, or characted flaws. It is a way of putting their best foor forward, and since it's electronic, no one can really verify it's accuracy. It serves it's purpose, to get peoples' attention. It got yours. But you are out there in the world, you have friends and you do stuff, while she does all that online. People go online and post pics that they think they look good in, and of a few fun moments, to make it look like their life is all that exciting. Pics are of moments only, and sitting behind a computer all the time is NOT doing much of anything exciting. Be grateful that you have more experience in life, and you do not have to reinvent yourself online. You are a doer, she is a talker.
2006-12-03 14:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing, but i think you were attracted to her on some level
2006-12-03 14:16:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋