Should i tell her we are dating or just keep it on the down low?This could be strange?I dont want things to get akward?I am really compatibal personality wise and emotionally with her brother and feel he might be the guy i end up with possibly marrying.
2006-12-03 05:48:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
their bedrooms are next too each other.
2006-12-03 05:54:35 · update #1
They do not get along
2006-12-03 05:59:16 · update #2
If the two are in a relationship where they both hangout together and not constantly bicker at each other then I don't see any problem. She might get jealous at first but she will accept it sooner or later. She can be an asset to keep one another faithful.
2006-12-03 05:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A real friend will stick by you. If you and this guy are meant for each other, don't let ANYONE get in the way. Love is important and friends are important but if she can't handle it that doesn't mean drop him. Don't hide it from her, be a good friend and tell her before she finds out.
2006-12-03 05:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by Julia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be up front with her.
If she is really ur best freind she can deal with it..
Try and tell her "gently"
You dont wanna come down to hard..
But She might feel like u cant trust her if u don't tell her.
But u can't neglect her as a freind.
2006-12-03 05:55:22 · answer #3 · answered by staygolden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should it can hurt her bcause it would be hard to be around u 2 and kno that lik each other but it would be strange i dont think u should date him cause what if u break u cause u were cheating on him or sum thin and u and ur best friend might not be as close as u were befor
2006-12-03 05:54:00 · answer #4 · answered by ahkiya :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF she is your best friend, then you have to tell her. Just sit her down and tell her everything u just told us. It would be worse if she find out some other way, then u would lose ur friendship w/ her. Just assure her that dating her brother would not affect ur friendship in any way.
2006-12-03 05:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by fldrod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont see what difference it makes nor do i see how it could be kept a secret.
my best friend married my sister, , , he had some cute sisters himself, , , i never dated one of them tho.
i dont think this falls under the taboo list.
2006-12-03 05:53:47 · answer #6 · answered by mejicojohn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good way to ruin a friendship.
tell her you like her brother and are interested in dating him...if she's okay with her and it wouldn't make the friendship weird...
assure her that he's not going to crash your times together or take you from her...
2006-12-03 05:52:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, you think she doesn't know already? She is probably just waiting for you tell her... like a best friend would of done already. :o)
2006-12-03 05:54:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's a good friend she'll accept it, just dont get all mushy around her
2006-12-03 05:50:52 · answer #9 · answered by TheBigCheese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋