what whould u do if ur 15yo son told u tht his teacher was making him feel uncomfortable and tht he'put his hands in his pants'? But when your son was 10 he told u tht his stepdad french kissed him and it turned out tht ur son was lyin bc he only wanted his stepdad to b gone?
would u believe him the 2nd time or just tht he is lyin?
2006-12-03 05:23:39 · 15 answers · asked by Charles B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no his stepdad never went to trail. We just pressured him into tellin us the truth.so im like 75% sure he wasnt telling the truth
2006-12-03 05:32:13 · update #1
check out step dad in your own way.if your son is lying again apparently he is, in need of help that you may not be able to give him ,you may need to seek medical help to see what is on him mind to be on the safe side.good luck
2006-12-03 11:20:24 · answer #1 · answered by ladybug 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From looking at your list of previous questions, I would state that asking questions will further delay your leveling up.
If you are the son in question, who has an alternate lifestyle family and is experiencing advances from your teacher I would be sure if thi is a True situation, you report as many details as possible to your Dads & be willing to go the school to have it stopped. If you are just looking to defocus the recent infidelities of your house so your Dads will get along than you owe it to the Teacher to fess up on the lies.
Were this my child, I would take care in gathering all the information I could, researching the teachers history & making a report to the school.
2006-12-03 13:35:06 · answer #2 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, your 15yr. old son, has experienced the art of lying as a means to getting his way.
He has experienced the power which he can have when he is dissatisfied.
There is something about his teacher that has annoyed him. But, your son believe's that it is not big enough or good enough a problem to warrent attention.
Therefore he is putting it in the hands of an adult to deal with this teacher. But, he is aware in order to get the attention of an adult he must fabricate it enough that, the adult will do what needs to be done to take care of his teacher.
You truly have a very serious situation your dealing with right now. Because he has found out that he has the power to make things happen, in the way in which he did with his stepdad.
I know you are saying to yourself right now, what if it's true what he is saying about his teacher. And that your son will be extremely upset if you don't support him.
You see the thing here, is that your son cannot handle some situations (the small one's that he feels are too big for him to handle) so, he gets the adult to rid the person for him.
What you need to do, and to cover yourself as well, is, tell your son that he is the one who has to go through all the foot work, that an adult, even yourself as the parent will have no say in it, that he is making a serious accusation and he must make the phone call to the police, call a lawyer, go to court, this is the big one that may get him to back down.....tell him they will make him take a lie detector test. And if he is found that he is lying, will he be willing to go to jail for a long time.
Your going to have to play a tough part to him, and tell him that is how they will treat him, not like a victim. He will also have to prove it. And let him know, once he starts the ball rolling, he won't be able to stop it. And police do have a way of finding things out.
I wish you the best of luck. But, try your best to get to the bottom of your son's real problem with the teacher. And help him to understand as much as you can that he does not need to make a big deal out of small things, because small things are a big deal to whomever they bother. But, sharing that, takes a load off of a young person's shoulders.
I sincerely, wish you all the luck with this.
2006-12-03 14:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by sweetcitywoman2002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've asked this question 4 times, but your first question was:
My dad is gay and hes been going out with Charles since i was six(for 9yrs). I love Charles and i call them both Dad(its not confusing at all)
But on Tuesday i had a half day at school and i caught by real dad in bed w/another guy. My Dad told me it was a 1 time thing and not to tell Dad. But i dont think i can do tht! I love both of them sooo much and i dont wanna hurt neither1. What should i do?
Which makes it sound like you're 15. So what's up? Are you a kid with a gay dad or a dad with a gay boy? Something's wrong...
2006-12-03 13:37:56 · answer #4 · answered by fresh2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask the school principal for help, and offer him the same background. Simply tell him that you are torn between believing him and not, and you want to be fair to both your son and the teacher. The school may be able to conduct an investigation without this becoming the crisis of the century.
2006-12-03 19:10:57 · answer #5 · answered by knowitall 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well... did his stepdad have a trail and jury found him innocent? like r u completly sure tht ur son was lyin the 1st time
2006-12-03 13:29:44 · answer #6 · answered by Dan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, tough question. he lied the first time so it's hard to believe what he's saying now, i would try to look into the matter and see if anything is going on. if he's lying about this for the second time you may consider getting him help, since innocent people could be hurt by these accusations.
2006-12-03 13:26:53 · answer #7 · answered by S 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
well first all of u need to sit down and talk and find out what the problem iz maybe he wants to be wit his father for a while
2006-12-03 13:32:12 · answer #8 · answered by ahkiya :) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, check on the teachers background
2006-12-03 13:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
at this age he should be able to defend himself from these sick people,so I guess he is lying,or he might me gay..
investigate the problem yourself if u really care..
2006-12-03 13:39:46 · answer #10 · answered by Gabriel D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋