because my bf is so freakin smart but im the biggest idiot on the face of the planet. what do u think
2006-12-03 04:32:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
well he was smart enough to pick you so you must have something on the ball...think better of yourself honey! He does!
2006-12-03 04:35:30 · answer #1 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwwww I'm sure you're not an idiot, don't say that about yourself. Do you guys talk? As in, are you able to have an intelligent conversation with him. If so, then you're not an idiot. Anyway - yes, 100%, opposites can attract. You don't want to be *just* like your partner or it makes for a very boring relationship. Sure, you should have things in common, but it's fun to disagree about things, or to like something very different than your partner. For example, my friend used to hate country music, but her husband loved it and she wound up loving it, too. My fiance is very likable but is shy with new people and doesn't like groups. I LOVE groups and speak to hundreds of people at a time as part of my job. I make him a more social person and he shows me how to enjoy one-on-one time better than I did. I hated cats, he made me love them. Relationships are a lot about learning and growth and sharing. Not only can opposites attract, but sometimes they make the best couples.
2006-12-03 12:40:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its fundamentally obvious that this is the case. From our early school days with simple magnets to the complexity of life and relationships.... I attract/am attracted to people so very different to me. Possibly in real life, one member of a "partnership" switches the polarity? maybe that switch is caused by work or stress/money worries, it could be a host of reasons..... then things begin to go pear-shaped? Possibly, in a really sound relationship both partners see it happening and want to hold the relationship? its time to change slightly - to rekindle what is there...
my answer is YES - definitely!!!!!
2006-12-03 20:36:04 · answer #3 · answered by ~Mustaffa~Laff~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read in a book that what initially attracts and intrigues you about a person is how opposite or different they are compared to you. However, the book also said that what makes relationships last is how similar they are to you. So basically, in the long run, people stay or marry people who are very similar to them.
2006-12-03 13:30:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would explain why I end up dating idiots.... But then again you know what they say about birds of a feather.
2006-12-03 12:35:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do believe opposites attract yes.
2006-12-03 12:35:34 · answer #6 · answered by Katie Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup you 'complete' eachother. but sometimes opposites can become a burden, but its always better than having somebody like you coz youve got yourself already right?
2006-12-03 12:48:40 · answer #7 · answered by ♫ singin_gurl1200 ♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. All of my boyfriends have been loud and outgoing and I'm quiet.
2006-12-03 12:48:32 · answer #8 · answered by Cori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it makes more sense for oppoisites to attract if we went for the boyfriends just like us it would be boring!!!
2006-12-03 12:37:51 · answer #9 · answered by foxy lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes opposites do attract, he must see you as more than you see yourself. good luck
2006-12-03 12:35:17 · answer #10 · answered by Wicked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋