I'm a Gemini and I need help with what to do with my life so I can have a life again!!!?

Question

I was born on May 23, 1954 @ 2:24 a.m. My husband passed away 6 years ago and in order to keep my house, pay bills, etc I have to work 2 full time jobs. One is dealing with Alzheimers residents and the other is retail. I only have a few hours to sleep each day and on days off am so tired I sleep them away so don't accomplish much. Need advice on what to do so I can feel human again.

Answer 1

I wouldn't go to astology if I were you, I'd go to God. But if that's what you want to do, good luck.

Since you asked, here is my opinion.

I think you should sell your house. I mean it may be painful and difficult but that house may hold a lot of memories that you may need to let go of in order to move forward and feel human again. If you sell your house, it will be like starting all over again. A fresh new beginning for your life.

You can quit one of your jobs.
You can go back to school.
You can get a condo for yourself.
You can take a leave of absense and take a restful vacation.
You can try visiting a local church and see what it's all about!
You can broaden your horizons and try new things.
You can find activities where you may meet new people.
You can travel for a long time, a wonderful way many people have dealt with in a situation like yours.

The sky's the limit.

Well good luck!

Answer 2

Currently, Saturn is still transiting your natal Pluto. This transit -- that lasts till mid 2007 -- almost always brings hardship and financial issues or decline. Needless to say, this is not funny a transit at all! However, this month December a whole lot of planets are in Sagittarius, the sign opposite Gemini, your Sun sign. December mostly brings a dip in the life of Geminis as the Sun opposes it's natal position. You do need some rest now ands low down somewhat! Also, because of the stellium in Sagittarius you may need encounters and let new people come into your life. You should go out into the world and into the open. Make a short trip. December will stay a most hectic time, but you will need to go through it.

Slowly, Saturn will leave Leo and enter Virgo late 2007 and square your natal Sun. This square almost always denotes a very active time in which you will build another world and life for yourself. This transit will bring a new start with breaking of old ties. Don't expect a fast progress though. Around the same time (late 2007) Jupiter will oppose it's natal position, another indication of a turning point in your life, more on a financial level though as Jupiter will be entering your 8th solar house.

Wouldn't you love to teach or propagate something: perhaps this may be more fulfilling. You seem to lack focus too.

Answer 3

Focus on your money problem. Cut back on spending. Try to reduce your bills - heating, electricity, water. Make it a game. Turn off everything you can when you go to work. Work to feel better about your money situation. Maybe think about selling your house and moving into a smaller one.

And get a good short immaginative fiction book and read it when you have time. You're a natural born writer. Tap into your creative immagination again by reading some creative books. Read. Also read the want ads. Maybe something will come out and slap you in the face.

Hope some of that helps. Good luck.

Answer 4

......And you feel like you are a prisoner in your own life.

The memories you have of your life and with your husband will remain just as strong if you move from your house. The truth is, working two jobs also enables to avoid something you've put off for six years. You've avoided mourning so you can't let go.

Letting go isn't forgetting. it's crying all your tears so all you feel about the ones who've passed over is love and fondness. You forgive yourself for the things you did say and for the things you should have said but never did. We never have enough time together. Give up the house, move in to somewhere smaller, give up one of the jobs and then give up your pain. You'll sleep like a log for once.

Answer 5

You are a Gemini. You are meant to be LIVIN". Not wasting away working. First, drop the job that brings you down. Then find a job that makes you happy. I do photography. It lets me be artistic and it is a little bit retail but people always love you because you capture moments. Find what you love and do that.

Answer 6

Is there any place you can go for help in bills, and heating for the winter months? Try calling your county extension office and see if they can give you and advise as to what and where to apply for heating assistance.

Maybe try downsizing your home (if possible), to lower the cost of expenses.

You have my praise for working so hard to keep it all together, and you have my sympathies for it taking every minute of your time. God Bless.

Answer 7

Dear lady - I am also your sign 06/11/54 - please read the answer by "neal9jsg" - it sounds like it was written for me.
I have way too much on my plate like yourself - but thankfully I have already started to "downsize" what I need in life. Please take care of you - items that you own can not keep you happy.
And the world flows smoother when we are happy! xox
Peace Be With You!

Answer 8

That's stupid to say, that you don't have a life because you are a Gemini. I'm a Gemini too (June 7th) and I have a very good life. I apologize if i'm misreading what you're saying.

Answer 9

move someplace with cheap rent

or better yet buy a place with a cheap mortgage, then quit one of the jobs, then get some renters and investments and quit the other one too

also, spend less if you can

Answer 10

maybe try finding a better paying job, i wish i had a better solution for you.