Umm...confused - everyone's opinion appreciated !!!?
just 3 nights before,i told my 3 month crush that i like him & he replied with a "i would have said yes,but i'm not looking for a relationship right now & i like someone else".he was VERY sweet abt it & we spent an hour talking abt life in general.
now,bear in mind that happened at this youth grp we attend & that was actually the last day of school too.so i won't be seeing him at school for 5 weeks.but i will b seeing him during the hols cos my friends are having a cookout thing at my place & he's coming too(generally,we'll be having a lot of hangouts this season).
ok! so,my question is,how should i act around him,now that he & everyone knows.there's nothing to hide.(i'm usually very shy around him & don't talk to him as much as i do with my other friends but after that conversation,how should i act?)my usual self?like hyper & very friendly?
thanks & ppl,i'm 17 so don't tell me 'go around & play with my barbie dolls'...i'm just learning to face certain challenges.hehe :^)
2006-12-03 04:18:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It took a lot of courage to tell him how you feel. Be glad that he was honest with you, he could have led you on or lied. It sound like he could be a good friend. You should treat him as a friend, and act like you always have around him. Be proud of yourself for putting your feelings out there, it takes a lot of guts.
2006-12-03 08:46:47 · answer #1 · answered by kcw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Now you don't have to worry about the pressure of "Does he like me?" so you don't have to worry about what he thinks anymore!
2006-12-03 04:25:49 · answer #2 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act as if he's one of your friends, be cool about it.
2006-12-03 04:27:24 · answer #3 · answered by Lil' Gay Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself--that's all you have to be.
2006-12-03 04:22:03 · answer #4 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋