child they are both boys. I feel my biological clock is ticking and i want to get pregnant, is it right to do that without him knowing?
2006-12-03 04:11:38 · 4 answers · asked by Lovelykitten 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Im 26 and he is 30
2006-12-03 04:12:48 · update #1
Its ok to do but NOT without him knowing - ever. You would be looking at a very short marriage and one very nasty divorce if you do that. If he's not ready for another, don't presure him , but talk to him about it and see what his feelings are. If he says he never wants more kids then it may be time to move on. If he wants more just not right now - you have plenty of time. You are only 26. If ou had said like 35, 38, 40, then ya you'd be more pressed for time but you have PLENTY of time.
But NEVER EVER trap a man into having a baby. ts cruel to him and your un-born child.
2006-12-03 06:46:01 · answer #1 · answered by Rae T 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doing it without him knowing is not right. You both want to get married and have children eventually, then tell him your concerns about thinking you are running out of time to have another child. If you can't talk to him about being afraid of not having enough time to mother another child, I'm sorry but how can you marry him. You both need to feel comfortable with talking to one another, especially as something as big as bringing a child into the world.
2006-12-03 04:59:23 · answer #2 · answered by Christina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my god no!
a relationship is based on trust and wanting the same things.
sit down with him and discuss things. but NEVER trick a man into fatherhood. It is deceitful and totally wrong.
2006-12-03 04:19:59 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your clock has time for him to agree, this is a special time for both of you. good luck
2006-12-03 04:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by Wicked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋