I'm just confused. Help, pleez.
2006-12-03 03:59:39 · 16 answers · asked by The Voice Inside Your Head 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Hey I like your name "Tomboy Princess" Take it from a Black Girl whose been a Tomboy and now a Princess. It's gonna come to either way. For starters, Don't Label Yourself.. Labeling puts yourself in a spot. Second, be proud that your bisexual. I used to be straight and I was a Tomboy now I'm Bisexual but it's still kinda half girly half boyish. But enough about me. What I'm trying to say is, Be proud to be Bisexual. There are alot of men and women who have been Bi pretty much their whole life. So there's nothing wrong with it. And if you've been with Girls more than Guys, then there's a Pretty Good Chance you may be turning Gay. Hey If You Want to, we could be friends.
2006-12-03 04:43:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
And a little dense by the sound of it. Sorry to be blunt but you have already stated that you are bisexual: you are attracted to men and you are also attracted to women. Sexuality is like a spectrum and for each description there are degrees. Only you will know to which degree of bisexuality is for you, whether you will like men more than women etc.
2006-12-03 04:06:20 · answer #2 · answered by Raymo 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi :) There's no rule that says you have to be one or the other. That's the reason the term 'bisexual' exists. If you truly need to label yourself as either 'straight' or 'gay'... then base it on the relationship you are currently in...although it seems to me that you would simply be denying an aspect of who you are.
2006-12-03 04:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by witchylust 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some say "bi" is like a cop out for gays, like it is more socially acceptable. If that is the case...then you know it, and do not need anyone to say otherwise. But I believe there are actually Bi-sexaul individuals...Whats the matter with liking both? You are getting the best of both worlds. Are you attracted to one sex more than the other? As far as falling in love..you will fall in love with whomever catches your fancy..man or woman. It will happen...then you may wish it hadn't. lol
2006-12-03 04:14:38 · answer #4 · answered by tata_bigs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't force yourself into one mold. To quote Shane of The L Word, "Sexuality is fluid, whether gay, straight or bisexual, you just go with the flow."
2006-12-03 04:11:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You may just be bisexual. Some people are. The confusion may just be a little bit of not willing to admit it to yourself.
2006-12-03 18:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't even "know" because you will always be bi. Don't get me wrong, you'll eventually settle down with one of the genders. But that won't make you "straight" or "gay." What's unique about being bi is you're open to having love relationships with both sexes. It doesn't mean you will: you might just marry a guy and be faithfully married to him for life. But being bi means you could go for either sex, and gender wouldn't play a role in choosing who you date.
2006-12-03 04:28:37 · answer #7 · answered by roxusan 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that u are confused I think u are in denial you know what you are just call a spade a spade and u will enjoy life better
2006-12-03 04:03:36 · answer #8 · answered by MsThang 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm confused, why do you think you should be straight or gay? you say you are bisexual, no problem...just be who you are.
2006-12-03 04:07:32 · answer #9 · answered by Spyder 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to label yourself, and you will not be confused anymore. Most people have a mix of sexual feelings, just enjoy it!
2006-12-03 04:05:22 · answer #10 · answered by sudonym x 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋