Does it affect your self esteem?How do you let go of resentment and anger towards friends, family and strangers who make you feel bad about yourself?
2006-12-03 03:46:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
If you had big boobs and a curvy figure, you would be teased about being plump. Love the skin you are in. It doesn't matter what anyone thinks but you.
2006-12-03 04:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by Amy D.R. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it affects your self esteem. As a teenager, the boys in high school were cruel, but my own mother was even more so. She would tease me about being flat chested in front of her friends, knowing that it was humiliating to me. I now have a daughter and I never miss an opportunity to tell her how beautiful she is.
2006-12-03 03:52:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was teased until I was about 14...until then I was tall and skinny and really had no boobs to speak of. Now I'm 21 (still tall, LOL) with all natural 34C's, perky nipples and my boobs are totally tan from my summer days at the nude beach. Needless to say I don't have any body shyness issues any longer...and nobody does any more teasing!
My point - nature usually takes care of itself, if you just give it time.
2006-12-06 09:01:23 · answer #3 · answered by nudie chick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You mean like most runway models? Most women would love to be "skinny." They often think to themselves if only I was a skinny as her, I could eat anything I want, etc, etc. They often think this is fair ground to make fun of because it would be so nice to be so skinny. If someone were smart or beautiful it seems pretty benign to make fun of those qualities - not mean at all. Well, if you hear it often enough, it starts to make you feel bad.
I might respond with a simple "Everyone has a cross their own cross to bear." Move on and don't take it too seriously. It is mostly envy coming out. Feel comfortable in yourself. There are plenty of men who like slim women. Good luck.
2006-12-03 03:52:33 · answer #4 · answered by c_schumacker 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if people do pick on u most of the time there jealous what i would do is go talk to someone you trust and maybe get that stopped dont ever try to take matters in your own hands
2006-12-03 03:51:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just basically my friends that tease me about it but its mstly cause i say it first
2006-12-03 04:57:13 · answer #6 · answered by Skittles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on u have a great figure. even i have a figure like u and i proude of it dear. be happy what god has given u my dear.
2006-12-03 06:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by sara k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like such girls
2006-12-03 03:48:40 · answer #8 · answered by tbear 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋