she overreacts at everything shes kinda nice but to different from me
2006-12-03 03:29:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Good for you, that you have the sense to do this.
There is a book that was out a year or so ago, as a new book, in Borders. The title was something like- When one friend won't tell the other that it's over.
And so many friendships of women, at least that's what the book was about,
break up without anyone saying a word.
You have the respect and the courage to do it, first of all, and are courteous enough to want to do it the right way!
Just let her know that you really appreciate her best qualities, but you just don't blend well together. Tell her that you understnad her feelings will be hurting, but that when time passes, you hope that you two can run into each other and appreciate the time you spent together, rather than avoid each other.
Be civil, I guess.
There is no easy way, but this is the right thing to do. And maybe we women, all over the country, will start to do this.
We all need to know that this happens, and we need to have a basic idea of how to handle it.
Thank you for a great question, by the way.
Good luck to both of you!
2006-12-03 03:38:27 · answer #1 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 14:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Just don't hang with her or spend time with her, make yourself unavailable to her when she calls or drops by. Tell her your going to see someone else, and do so, after a while she will get the idea that you two are no longer buddy buddy and she will make another friend to replace you. But there is no reason to tell her you don't want to be her friend, to me that is cruel, it would make me feel like there was something wrong with me. If you are different that doesn't make her wrong, just not for you to be friends with.
2006-12-03 03:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by sassywv 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is kinda nice but just different from you, you don't have to cut her off completely. Just start spending some of your time with somebody else. Gradually you can spend less time with her, until it is hardly any time. Don't be rude.
2006-12-03 04:09:36 · answer #4 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the thing you have to think about when approaching this situation is how sensitive she is. if she's seriously sensitive dont jsut flat out tell her... give hints. Mayb she'll get annoyed and then you can just blurt everything out and it'll b over... good luck!
2006-12-03 03:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell her. just dont talk to her or hang out with her a lot. then she'll get the idea.
2006-12-03 04:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by heyyy123456789 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can say it with out saying anything, we sometimes out grow our friends,sounds like that"s what you"ve done
2006-12-03 03:55:52 · answer #7 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her WHY you don't
then see what she says.
Maybe there is a misunderstanding or something.
2006-12-03 03:33:29 · answer #8 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her
2006-12-03 03:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by Tiffany b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋