I have a boyfriend and he's a great one. But I never have good dreams about him. He's always with other girls and I find out he's cheating on me or he lies to me in the dream. I'm always with other guys. My boyfriend treats me great, well most of the time. but i have never had a dream about him being good to me. whats this mean?
2006-12-03 02:27:14 · 7 answers · asked by Skyla 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Here's my thoughts...If you never have good dreams about your Great boyfriend your subconscious mind could be trying to tell you a thing or two that your conscious mind is blocking either because of denial, or you're blinded by love. the vision in the dream , him kissing ; and he become aware that he's lying to you could be a vision that is trying to prepare you for the possibility that he's been less than honest with you. You said ; " my boyfriend treat me great, well most of the time. " I'd pay attention to the , well most of the time. It's easy to forgive someone of their short coming and believe in the best rather than to doubt. But it sounds to me and is reaffirmed to me that in your asking this question you have some suspicions at the very least. My advice is to keep your eyes & ears open, Listen to what you r instincts are trying to tell you. Confide in a girlfreind or another woman who may have food for your thoughts. The meanong of all of your dreams will unfold as you continue to live you life. You sound like a bright, caring, loving person. Stay true to yourself and evn if this "great boyfriend " messes up you'll still be whole & wiser for the experience. Best wishes.
2006-12-03 02:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"My boyfriend treats me great, well most of the time."
The question is when he's not treating you great is he emotionally or physically abusive? Does he try to make you feel like you are less than perfect?
If you were hurt in the past, by a cheating boyfriend or just a guy who was emotionally unavailable it could be that you are just afraid of getting serious with this guy. He may be perfect but your subconcious is looking for a reason to not trust him.
Make a list of the good things about him and a list of the bad. If the good outweighs the bad then try to find ways to make yourself relax.
2006-12-03 04:08:52 · answer #2 · answered by Minorarcana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consult a dream book, if youre really wondering. Most of the time they are not too far off the mark. I think youre experiencing some insecurity issues and lack of trust. Youre worried that things are going too good, and something bad will happen. Are you pessimistic by nature?
2006-12-03 02:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by ber439_0116 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your instinct will tell you what this means. You CANNOT truthfully judge this based on a dream book and it does not neccesarily mean that you do not trust him. Dreams are still a mystery. We have no idea what they mean. We don't even know why we have them. For now, go on what your heart tells you.
2006-12-03 02:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by Kyle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to seem on the desires, workout consultation what the major factors contained in the desires are. this may help you pin element what it really is on your life it truly is effecting you. some human beings will dream of homes and getting stuck or lost interior it. - its taking the time to analise what it really is at your residence it truly is effecting you.. Then going decrease back over it in waking life and initiate making small alterations. fairly some the time our desires can assist us face issues in our life we by no ability idea lets.
2016-11-30 02:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess dreams mean exactly the opposite, because they are only fictions in our mind...So,stay calm...
2006-12-03 03:31:20 · answer #6 · answered by Genny Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it mean in your heart you do not trust him
2006-12-03 02:45:03 · answer #7 · answered by kimht 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋