I have a fetish with spandex and I'm going to join the wrestling and swimming team. I was advised by an answer to buy a jammer and wear it around to get used to the spandex, and not get an erection. My parents don't know I like spandex. How will I buy a jammer, speedo, or singlet without my parents knowing, should i tell them about my fetish, oh yeah I'm in 8th grade. I'm straight, not gay.
2006-12-03 01:36:29 · 5 answers · asked by Wonderor 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I advise you to wear a jammer! Get used to it! Lot sof stares from girls too!
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I am a straight too! But don't really have a fetish in spandex.
2006-12-03 04:45:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if U like them - then just buy them. Nothing to be ashamed of from your folks. don't try to hide it. It's not like you bought drugs or something illegal. don't make any announcements to tell your folks anything. the more you try to conceal it - the more they will be nosy about it.
I don't blame you for the spandex fetish. It's a free country and why not?? but you must get used to the spandex pressure and not to get hard so easy. THis is true. I bet you're gonna look HOT in your speedo when you swim.
Look - you're a guy - and guys have dicks and when you wear a speedo or singlet - Yes - it's normal for your **** to show thru the fabric. But why you ashamed of this??? Women have huge breasts which stick out so much in your face, very vulgar to look at and they are not ashamed. So why U ashamed to be a man??
Please accept how God made you - and that your ***** is always gonna show somewhat - and that's NO BIG DEAL !!!! I think it's swell if a guy's **** shows thru the fabric of his clothes.
I want you to buy that spandex stuff - and get used to it - and to change your whole attitude about your **** showing thru. you must not be ashamed of being a man - this is how God made you.
Yoiu're gonna look damn good in those speedos. Now is your youth - so enjoy it - when you're older you can't wear that stuff and look good. and even if you did get a hard-on - so what????
that's normal, & natural for guys to have - & that's the way God made you !!!!!
Email me directly if you need further info. Don't let anyone push you around and cramp your style.
2006-12-03 10:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it, just get your freak on and wear what you want to. every other guy on the team will have spadex on as well, so , if you are not gay, then you will get comfortable rather quickly. if you are , then good choice in teams to join! i wish we had a swim team in highscool! i would have been all over it. besides guys look hot in speedoes!i am sure you will look just fine!
2006-12-03 23:07:14 · answer #3 · answered by mnbrdtn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your parent that you need to get use to the jammer so that when you swim you are comfortable and not worried.....they will understand just ask they will be more than happy to get you one so that you can get use to it
2006-12-03 18:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sure you wear a supporter aka jockstrap with the outfit you chose for protection.
2006-12-03 14:54:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋