i've always wondered why i didn't feel loved when i was a child. my parents didn't neglect me..or at least not to my knowledge. i had a good childhood. but i remember i not feeling loved. i remember one time i drew a picture of what my bday would be like. i drew me outside sleeping in a gutter and each of my family members giving me gifts such as rats and garbage. maybe i was just hard to please? i wasnt breastfed could that be a reason? yeah i seriously doubt it. i'm just curious
2006-12-03 01:20:07 · 7 answers · asked by yo 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i know they love me now. i'm talking about when i was a kid.
2006-12-03 01:28:45 · update #1
What birth-order are you in? Perhaps you're a middle child, or maybe the oldest and a new baby took up all your attention? Kids that young don't understand that others can need more attention and that they are still loved the same. Possibly you felt neglected and maybe jealous of others. Even your parents spending time and attention on other things, like work when they absolutely have to, can make it seem like no one was paying attention to you.
Research birth order. It does hold a lot of truth in the development of most people and their personality. Also, think about how things were going on in your life that could have contributed to this feeling, justified or not.
2006-12-03 01:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by punchy333 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you did not know love then you would not miss it - so you did feel loved. Maybe you felt you needed it more often than the people close to you were able to have the time to show you. Was your home a busy home? Did you or your siblings keep your parents busy with other things? Did you and your family move? So many important things could draw people's attention away from a disappointed little girl who wanted love "now".
2006-12-03 04:38:28 · answer #2 · answered by mecasa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear! don't say like that..may be you feel now that tou are lonly..or may be you are disappointed because of someone..or you are looking for to be inlove with true & honest love in your life ..someone different be near and too close to you..help support and guide you in all that you do...having avery kindunderstand to your needs in this life..and accept you as you are with doing his best to correct you in a kind way.. without to embarrass you..or being embarrassed..about our family i think that each one has his way to tell you that i love you...some by doing and some by saying..but at the end they love us as we are
..but sometime we cannot understand something till we have children..or have the same responsebility....you know what even if our family don't showing us their love..try to be positive..and love others sure you will be loved..don't wait always what others giveing you..be helful,lover ,honest,pure,and look for future and what you are now..leave the past for the past..live your life please,pleeeeeeeeease...and i wish you all the best and to meet soon and very soooon your soul mate if you still single..and if you are marreage already try to find the way to be happy with your husband ...don't worry be happy.. :)
2006-12-03 02:43:36 · answer #3 · answered by believer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does not really matter now. Don't dwell on the past.
This is your life now. Make it what you want it to be.
American Idol (above) has a way of making smart remarks in everyone's questions. Blow him off.
If you are old enough to ask this question and old enough to wonder why you are old enough to move forward and not even worry about anything you had no control over whatsoever. What you do have control over is your life now. What you want your life to be and where you want to go in life.
Make the best of it!
2006-12-03 01:22:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really....bizzare. I feel the same way...and you have the same name as me in real life. ANNE. WIERD. Anywho... I'm 16 and I feel lost and just like no one cares for someone like me. That i'll never find love and stuff like that. I think this is normal for people but not all the time and not to the point where you commit suicide or anything like that. I think that it's just hard to accept things and there for we look into our selves and blame us or somethin. Breastfeeding wouldn't affect that. But don't worry too much into it. Move forward and just think of how greatfull you are to have the life you have/had. :)
2006-12-03 01:25:45 · answer #5 · answered by SweetCocoaAngel 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
most generally it is not that your family doesn't love you but you feal like you don't deserve the love and that needs a lot of help you just have to remember there are people way worse than you and try to accept your family's love so it doesnt hurt them
2006-12-03 01:26:27 · answer #6 · answered by tonyswaney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need a phycologist..you have some serious issues!
2006-12-03 01:27:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋