My friends suddenly became popular and now i don't have any friends. I have tried to hang out with other cliques, but they just ignore me or try to pass the hint of "go away". What should I do???
ims_ocool
2006-12-02 23:11:50 · 13 answers · asked by ims_ocool 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should really just be yourself, if these people cant except you for you than they are really not worth the drama at all being popular isnt important but being yourself is at least then when you do find the friends you are so dearly reaching out for you will know that they are being real an excepting you for who you are....as a true friend should!! just hang in there and you will find what your searching for darl,an with out having to pretend your someone your not just for the sake of fake company. goodluck and to yourself be true.
2006-12-02 23:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by WESTIE GURL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always been in the middle. Never popular or never a geek. I have felt the same way. I'm sure that their is that one person you can talk to and hang out with. People come and go in and out of our lives for a reason. You just have to realize that and ask God for new friends. I have had semesters at college where I felt like I was lonely and I became depressed and suicidal. I just asked God to send me a couple of good friends. Now I have friends that I can hang out with and talk to.
2006-12-02 23:41:10 · answer #2 · answered by tonja20770 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to be on the top with them. There are actually lots of nice/good people outside of the popular group. Try to be friendly with those people. You may gain a best friend that way!
2006-12-02 23:19:58 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with what everyone else had said here, especially westie gurl. If these people can't accept you for who you are, then they aren't worth knowing. You will find other friends, dont worry. Don't change the wonderful beautiful person you are! Be happy and enjoy life! It isn't about being popular, it's about being the best person that you can be. GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-02 23:32:42 · answer #4 · answered by melfromhell001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start you own group of friends would be the way to go. Find a person who may need a friend.
2006-12-02 23:15:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-13 19:05:36 · answer #6 · answered by glassburn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should start your own group of friends get some of the other girls that aren't so popular and start your own well thats what I did.
2006-12-03 01:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Natasha♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welll first of all you know that friend who dumped you when she became popular? Forget her you don't need people like that in you life.
-Second join a club (YOU LIKE) your bond to find people who like the same things as you.
Hope it helps
2006-12-03 00:48:43 · answer #8 · answered by bark.bark.bark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now they r populr if they r tru frends they would hav tried and mad u be popular if they couldnt they would at least not ignor u talk to u my sugestion is try and mak new frends ur own group
2006-12-02 23:53:27 · answer #9 · answered by spiderlady3207 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw them, if they think they are too good for you then they aren't your friends.
2006-12-02 23:35:50 · answer #10 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋