This girl in school told everyone a stupid rumor about me. Its soooo not true! anyways, everyone is mad at me and i feel so... lonely! I went from the most popular girl in school to the loserwho doesnt have any friends. People say i annoying and they just dont like me, but other people dont like me because of her. I already tried getting on myspace and sending msgs to everyone, and everyone was like "ya. right." and i posted bulletins and everything. How can I get them to like me again and get back on top while making even more friends?
2006-12-02 22:33:19 · 15 answers · asked by chickalade_star 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Now you can understand why you popular folks make the minority feel like idiots.
Now try to make friends with the minority.
2006-12-02 22:46:34 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry that happened to you.. Rumors really stink cuz the person who starts the rumor knows what they are doing, She intentionally told a rumor just to hurt you.. Girls like her are so bored and probebly disgusted with there own life they try to make your life as miserable as there life, that is really sad.. Have you tried this.. If you can ever get her alone ask her how her life is, maybe she is really jealous of you, or maybe she is trying to reach out to some one, but does not know how...If she just likes to hurt you... All I can say is you are the better person as long as you dont stoop to her level, do not do what she did to you, cuz then you are no better then she is.. Your friends will eventually realize that she is full of sh**, and they will come back to you.. Do not dwell on it, just keep your head up high, You are the better person...
2006-12-03 07:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by AliKatt33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be ok in college. High school sucks because as you can see the popularity contest is a fickle beouch. Either you are on top or not. If anything this gives you a better sense of humility and if you make it back on top again in life maybe you will be a little more nice to those who were not so popular when you were. Maybe this is KARMA.
2006-12-03 06:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by Roger S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me when I say this....let it go. Just go on be friendly and be yourself. Stop!!!! trying to explain yourself or clear yourself. If you let this slide it will lose it's importance and people will move on to the next rumor, or problem or drama. But as long as you participate you are making it worse by feeding into it and keeping it alive. REALLY. Try to imagine all the things that happen in one year. Do you think this will be the most important thing happening in a year...no! It probably won't last another week if you ignore it. It might be hard to act like it doesn't matter. But if you do..It will go away and it won't matter anymore.
2006-12-03 06:42:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the biggest and greatest person to you and you only. You owe what is loaned out to you, but when you loan out yourself to a person or to a peer of friends that make you justify your well being then obviously your traveling up rive against a current that pushes you backwards and you don;t want that. You want success in everything you do so be the leader and not the follower in your life and everyone will come to you.
2006-12-03 06:38:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why trying to get on top? Maybe that's why she did it. I think the best way is to make friends with her (at least pretend) then she'll reverse what has happened and also "prove" through actions that you're friendly and the other person is lying.
2006-12-03 06:35:59 · answer #6 · answered by Rawkus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and act like you don't care. Eventually people will see how petty it was and your true friends will come back to you. Have fun with your life, don't focuss on these petty things. You fell right into it, that is what she wanted, don't feed into their negativity. No matter how much it bothers you move on and act like it don't.
2006-12-03 06:37:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be hard to recover. try making friends first with the people who you think are kind and don't give and s*** on what other people say about each other
2006-12-03 06:36:22 · answer #8 · answered by piercedgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start buying friends
2006-12-03 06:35:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can always do it my way, get even to the girl who started the rumor so then no one trusts her and BOOM, youre back on top.
2006-12-03 06:39:38 · answer #10 · answered by leoqueen94 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋