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why is it that when we wake up we have ideas and thoughts about our day to come? why can't we just go through our day without worrying or thinking of every detail?

2006-12-02 21:58:45 · 11 answers · asked by Ibrahim K 1 in Social Science Psychology

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You know this is a pretty good question.

Just to clarify things from the start, people who go through their day without worrying of stressing of every detail can still have ambition. People have a different ways of going about it. There are faster and slower routes to achieving things but really, there is no right and wrong ways to do these things. Also, there are people who are busy from the hour they wake up til the time they lay back asleep... people who have 'full plates' but still lack ambition.

I believe ambition can come from several different factors.

By wanting SUCCESS
By wanting POWER
By wanting STATUS
By wanting ACCEPTANCE
By wanting EQUALITY
By wanting to ACHIEVE
By wanting to PLEASE
By wanting to SURVIVE in their environment
By wanting REVENGE even...

Be being DRIVEN
By being INSPIRED
By being COMPETITIVE
By being OPTIMISTIC
By being MOTIVATED

We have all been given the tools in life to succeed.

I think everyone has ambitions. Some people fly right through life without or with very little failure, hurt or obstacles. But some people have negative factors in their lives which may stunt their life's growth. Some don't know what they want, some do. Some have the ability to overcome or separate themselves from these negative factors by using their upsets to fuel their 'drive' and are driven to move forward, yet some just can't.

Yes, we are shown the tools to succeed, but we all have different minds, hearts and circumstances and we're all different people. People with different backgrounds, language, beliefs, class, upbringing, education, health, mentality, energy, faith, family, morals, ethics and philosoophies. Unfortunately the equation to success does not pertain and work for everyone.

People who believe in fate, believe that drive and ambition just comes naturally to those who were meant to achieve certain positions in this world. But there are negative influences that could change things around.

It's nice to see and know people who know exactly what they want and who can meet their ambitions. Motivational writers and speakers really work wonders in the world today... hopefully one day we'll see everyone get to meet their ambitions!!

2006-12-02 23:05:03 · answer #1 · answered by lady from the other day 3 · 1 1

Because we need all the perfections and betterments in our lives.
We don't want to dwell or sink in our flaws and shortcomings at all.
We demand to be better than the others because of we need improvements.

When we wake up in the morning we are fulfilled with so many ideas and thoughts that lead us to do something better for our lives because we supposedly always want something more and strive to be better. Nobody wants to be glitch. No one. Because we do know that humans are imperfect already since the day one. We feel that we still have something unfulfilled in ourselves deep down inside our soul.

And so from this point on.... from where we have the rudimentary and flawed thinking of ideas and thoughts about our day to come and also because we always feel something is still unfulfilled in our soul; all the ambitions are born.
From our blemishes and defects and unfulfilled needs ... derive ambitions, whether they are good or bad, that lead us to something that we still didn't feel completed yet by it.
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2006-12-02 22:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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2016-10-17 15:38:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

We have ambitions because we need a target in life. Without ambitions, we may lose meaning in life and feel alienated in our work roles, and even social roles. Being able to progress towards your ambition awards the self social recognition and support, as well as self-support, which is crucial for our mental well-being.

The self thinks abt the coming day and events to rehearse mentally the roles and actions that you may have to make. The self is very sensitive to role support from society and self. Hence, we alwez try to make sure that we are successful in protraying and executing the role and whatever is required of us. This leads us to thinking and worrying about every detail and uncertainty of the coming day.

These thought processes are essential in our lives and serves to complement our physical well-being.

2006-12-02 22:17:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

I have discovered that sadness is a state of mind. Being happy is a choice, but not a very easy one once you’ve got a full plate of things to worry about.
Each has his own different way of expressing himself.
We’ve got our different set of problems, dilemmas and all sorts of things that make our every day life colorful. Well, I’ve got a whole lot of things to think about recently, and I couldn’t deny not being able to escape this stress even while I’m away.

2006-12-02 22:03:03 · answer #5 · answered by jas 2 · 0 2

It is good to have ambition...and yeah trust me there are some people who go through the day without thinking....and that is not heallthy...cuz you don't do nothing you dont move forward if you have a lack of ambition.

good luck

2006-12-02 23:09:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

Because out of fear of the unknown, humans have a tendancy to try to control everything to their benefit. It is probably deeply rooted as a survival instinct, kind of a "make a plan, or plan to fail" kind of thing. Also, I believe that sometimes God puts things into our hearts for a reason.

2006-12-02 22:03:09 · answer #7 · answered by grlinwhite 2 · 1 1

The answer to your question is your can, The undisiplined mind wanders in thought and aspirations due to emotional states and endicrine imbalances. Health and control of your emotions is the first step to controling your thoughts.

2006-12-02 22:08:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

Out of envy with our nieghbors is one. Man is not contented with anything unless he stops looking around.

2006-12-02 22:08:42 · answer #9 · answered by wilma m 6 · 0 2

It's a survival mechanism.

2006-12-02 22:46:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

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