Plz vindicate--Can the personality of oneself be changed, how.?

Answer 1

Your real Personality is the base of how your mind should function naturally. Technically your Personality is not supposed to change.

However truma, survival, and "the band wagon" can make your Personality appear different then your real personality. These however may just be temporary or circumstantial.

For example if you are drawn into a situation that activates a problem like a Fear or a Trumatic Memory,.. you may actted withdrawn, frightful, and avoident.. even though you are normally not this way. This is not your real personality but how some people may think you are.

If you jump out a window to escape flames people might think you are a Brave person, but normally this isn't how you are.

If "the band wagon" decides to get drunk, use drugs, and fling beer bottles at people while hitting on other people,.. people may think your a JERK,.. but that's not how you normally are.

Now it is posible to try to permenantly change your personality,.. but at the same time you would have to be free of factors like that because they will distract you, get you to shift another direction,.. and once they aren't around you'll just be back to your real personality.

You have to take a serious " I don't care,.. I'm not doing this for anybody else, ... and I don't care about myself..." stance on things in order to change your personality. So for the most part,.. personality changes are temporary or for the worst instead of to ANYONES benefit.

Never believe anyone that says they can CHANGE or be DIFFERENT,.. because that means they are relying on other factors so they will just masquerade as something different then snap back but with alot of anger and hostility the second your alone with them or they are with a different person.